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Thank you very much for your thoughts. Especially for reading them this morning as I went back and slept at my own home late last night after having another conversation with him, very sad, and just realizing that he sounded done. I just didn't even want to sleep at his house anymore. So...

Yes, you are right on the issue thing and also correct that it's still taking him so long, I know what I should do, now I just have to ...... that's the hard part. Thanks for all your help:goodvibes

Believe me that I would never just be with someone just because I didn't want to be alone. I've counseled others about that....mostly my mother, who married a real winner;) but I certainly wouldn't. My, SO has many good qualities, but actual commitment (although he would never cheat) and...

Thanks, I know it sucks and is hard to go. I just keep thinking that he's in some kind of depression since he's been out of work for almost 3 months from his foot surgery, so I was trying to be patient thinking of that. It's embarrassing as hell too to move back in my home and tell the...

That is really sweet, thank you really, it helps:flower3:

Thanks all, I know these things but somehow it is just better to hear someone else say them, especially people outside of the loop. Thanks for being honest:worried: Even writing the situation down stares me in the face.

I wasn't really sure where to post this but I needed to hear advice and I wanted to remain anonymous so I didn't want to ask friends. My SO and I have been together for almost 9 years, we're both in our late 40's. He really has always had a terrible way of communicating and shows his...

oooooo! did I get a googley?:sail:

Me too!:hug:

So sorry to trouble you Cass;):hug:

Hi Nancy!:wave2: Nope, Alex and I aren't coming, boo hoo:sad1: :rolleyes1

Hi Nancy!:wave2::rotfl:

Hi Nancy!:wave: Sorry I haven't been on the boards lately:lmao:

:thumbsup2 :lmao::rotfl::rotfl2:

Ranzatan is not really Arleen and Alex..... I am:

Got it yet?

Yep, I had my boyfriend all convinced that we HAD to go on this cruise! because it was named after him!

That photo of us on the Bob site is actually not us, those are best friends of mine who live in South Carolina, I asked their permission to use their photo in this whole plot.....

I actually flubbed up once and Mikey and perhaps even Jeffy suspected me.

Mark had offered to buy my boyfriend a green pearl drink if we cruised again with them and we were excited to let them in on our little secret.