LBIJim
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- Jul 24, 2009
.....even if your child's fiancée is a Bride/Groomzilla?
Years ago I told DDs (29 and soon to be 26) not to expect a 50K+ Disney Fairy Tale Wedding on my dime. I doubt they'd be interested anyway. But sure, I expect to pay or at least contribute if they decide to get married. But I also expect the groom's parents and the kids themselves to contribute as well.
Hopefully they won't want anything elaborate, but I suppose I would pay about $10,000, maybe a bit more. That's for the reception. Other costs would be decided upon separately.
And since I'm paying, of course I will have some say in the matter. Guest list, food and music choices, etc. Yep, some strings attached. They can always find another way if that's unacceptable.
As for a 3 hour Head Banger's Ball, not a chance in hell.
Years ago I told DDs (29 and soon to be 26) not to expect a 50K+ Disney Fairy Tale Wedding on my dime. I doubt they'd be interested anyway. But sure, I expect to pay or at least contribute if they decide to get married. But I also expect the groom's parents and the kids themselves to contribute as well.
Hopefully they won't want anything elaborate, but I suppose I would pay about $10,000, maybe a bit more. That's for the reception. Other costs would be decided upon separately.
And since I'm paying, of course I will have some say in the matter. Guest list, food and music choices, etc. Yep, some strings attached. They can always find another way if that's unacceptable.
As for a 3 hour Head Banger's Ball, not a chance in hell.