I agree with aaarcher that most people probably don't pay enough attention to the shirts for it to matter.I don't think it matters either.
I'm also going to be completely honest with you - shirts like that just irk me. I find myself taking the person less seriously and want to roll my eyes. I'm not just being a jerk though. I used to go to all the family events through my son's early intervention program and the families with autistic children would group off, wear matching shirts and treat us like 2nd class citizens because nobody in the family was autistic. We have also been uninvited in completely unrelated situations when people found out my cognitively delayed daughter was not on the spectrum. So while I am a single incident, I see shirts like that and feel like I am being excluded from a club and you are rubbing it in my face.
Seeing as how labeling a person as autistic or non autistic gives you no clue as to their specific needs, I don't think it could really do much to help.
While I get your intent, I think that instead of people reading the shirt and being more understanding, a lot of people will think "oh great, another parent who thinks the world revolves around their autistic kid."
acebatonfan said:I am thinking about doing something similar for myself and DSis(13). DSis is also on the autism spectrum, and I am concerned that she might be separated from my family. She does not have the cognitive skills to know to find a CM to call DM.
I am a T1 diabetic, and I am afraid of going into a severe hypoglycemic episode while traveling the parks. I do have a medical ID bracelet, but I do not know if someone will notice it right away.
We will both have magic bands, and I am considering doing a diy project with them. For DSis, I am considering writing "autistic" on her magic band somewhere and have DM's cell phone number on the inside. My band will most likely have "diabetic" on it and have my endo's and DF's phone numbers inside with a note that I am on an insulin pump.
It might look really tacky, but I do not want to be in the situation where I am alone and have a diabetic emergency, or DSis is separated from the family, and CM's have no idea who to contact.
... We will both have magic bands, and I am considering doing a diy project with them. For DSis, I am considering writing "autistic" on her magic band somewhere and have DM's cell phone number on the inside. My band will most likely have "diabetic" on it and have my endo's and DF's phone numbers inside with a note that I am on an insulin pump. ...
Instead of doing it on her MB which is a special momento,could you not get a charity band and write on that? I've also seen snap wristlet " not sure what you would call them" there a piece of material that has plastic in it that bends and when you tap it on a surface it rolls up like a bracelet,we got a plain one and wrote our numbers and diagnosis on that.
I am thinking about doing something similar for myself and DSis(13). DSis is also on the autism spectrum, and I am concerned that she might be separated from my family. She does not have the cognitive skills to know to find a CM to call DM.
I am a T1 diabetic, and I am afraid of going into a severe hypoglycemic episode while traveling the parks. I do have a medical ID bracelet, but I do not know if someone will notice it right away.
We will both have magic bands, and I am considering doing a diy project with them. For DSis, I am considering writing "autistic" on her magic band somewhere and have DM's cell phone number on the inside. My band will most likely have "diabetic" on it and have my endo's and DF's phone numbers inside with a note that I am on an insulin pump.
It might look really tacky, but I do not want to be in the situation where I am alone and have a diabetic emergency, or DSis is separated from the family, and CM's have no idea who to contact.
I agree with lanejudy. I have also read that CMs could use the information the Magicbsnd is linked to, bu don't know if it's true that they use it in lost child situations.Keep in mind that a CM will NOT remove the MB or bracelet to read something written on the underside, especially in the event of a lost child. They may or may not even look at it to find anything written on the outside, but it has better chance of being seen that way than on the side against the skin.
I don't know how accurate this is, but I read recently that CMs "may" use MBs in the case of lost children to pull up the parent's MDE account info for a cell phone number. I'm not sure if that is true or not, but a possibility.
Enjoy your vacation!
lanejudy said:Keep in mind that a CM will NOT remove the MB or bracelet to read something written on the underside, especially in the event of a lost child. They may or may not even look at it to find anything written on the outside, but it has better chance of being seen that way than on the side against the skin.
I don't know how accurate this is, but I read recently that CMs "may" use MBs in the case of lost children to pull up the parent's MDE account info for a cell phone number. I'm not sure if that is true or not, but a possibility.
Enjoy your vacation!
Keep in mind that a CM will NOT remove the MB or bracelet to read something written on the underside, especially in the event of a lost child. They may or may not even look at it to find anything written on the outside, but it has better chance of being seen that way than on the side against the skin.
I don't know how accurate this is, but I read recently that CMs "may" use MBs in the case of lost children to pull up the parent's MDE account info for a cell phone number. I'm not sure if that is true or not, but a possibility.
Enjoy your vacation!