Why do people assume if you work hard at saving money that you are being judgmental of others or that you never have any FUN?? There is this misconception that if you want to enjoy your life debt (of some kind) is the only way to make it happen. Wouldn't it make more sense to have the freedom to buy things with cash when you want, not to have to borrow it or live pay check to pay check? When you are in control of your money you have more freedom to do what you want, buy what you want, vacation when you want, not LESS freedom to do these things. This is good advice for anyone.. it's not a judgement, it's not a slap on the wrist, it's a lifestyle that puts you in control of your own life and when people find that it really works, they are excited about it! They want to share it so that others can experience what a difference it makes. I don't see anyone judging, I see people frustrated over knowing there is a better way to achieve what you want in life.
Suzy, Dave and others are simply the public faces that have taken a very basic message "public." If you don't have the dollar, you can't use the dollar. It's not a judgement, it's just a fact. Earn the dollar, wait till you have the dollar, and then spend the dollar as needed.
When my DH was in the military, he used to tell me stories about the young men / women who for the first time were learning that just because they now had a checkbook, didn't mean they actually had money. They couldn't figure out why their checks were bouncing... they still had some left! This is sad to me. Basic money skills and understanding are not something to ignore and / or run from. So many people I personally know are completely burdened because of bad financial choices because no one ever taught them what the heck they were supposed to be doing! It's a basic skill that is so vital to our lives and yet completely ignored by many. To this day, I have family that is terrified of the word "budget." It's a misconception - knowing what is going in and what is going out will only give you more power in the long run, not less.