Bonniec
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Aug 22, 2011
Seriously. I can't imagine why I'd want to spend hours before and on my vacation planning, buying, and distributing gifts to strangers. I can give my son the same experience by just buying for him and giving him a surprise each day (in fact, we do).
I say this with a lot of affection, really, but only women can create this scenario. There is no way a dude decides to spend a bunch of money on strangers, obsesses about whether gifts to random strangers are socially acceptable (am I cool enough? thoughtful enough? wealthy enough?), obsesses about whether strangers are fully appreciating what they're receiving, spends precious vacation time delivering packages to strangers, and then accounts for the relative worth of the trinkets received from strangers. It's so fascinating to see the energy that is devoted to planning this stuff, I do not get it at all. FEers have just created a whole new set of social obligations and anxieties completely out of thin air. It's not for us, that is for sure.
It's funny because my first thought about FE's was how odd it all was. I want to spend my vacation with family, not doing stuff with strangers or exchanging gifts with people I don't know. But then I kept seeing all these posts about it and started thinking maybe I wasn't in the Disney spirit. The conversation with my husband went something like this..."Honey, I know it's really wierd but maybe Mason (our son)would enjoy getting those little secret Santa-like gifts during the cruise." His reply, "Have you lost your mind? If you do that, I am not going. In fact, I might have to divorce you." So yeah, it's not for us. (Nor are the meet ups or the magnets.)
No offence to anyone who likes it, do what makes you happy. I clearly belong on that curmudgeon thread wherever it went. At least I am not alone in my scrooge ways. Maybe deep down I am really a man!