sunshinehighway
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Mar 11, 2010
What I said is that it needs to be taken into consideration. A woman who is the kind of person who would burn down a house to kidnap a baby is highly unlikely to be a good parent. Neither is someone who would steal a child. Those behaviours would mean, in my opinion, that it would not be in the best interests of the child to stay with them.
That's very different than caring parents who adopted a child in good faith, legally, and then had a previously-uninvolved father attempt to take the child. I think in these situations the best interests of the child should be carefully considered. Both sides will have arguments to make, and I think the child should have a lawyer too to express the child's interests.
TP
The court ruling seems to disagree with you about the father and the way the adoption was handled. The ruling seems to say there was deceit which kept the father from being involved.