This is too funny - you sound JUST like me with your second guessing and driving the hubby nuts! But, here's my review - We went in February of this year and LOVED, LOVED, LOVED the POFQ. I guess it's all what you want in a hotel but for us, we liked the smaller size of the resort. My son enjoyed the pool and it was, overall, just a great resort.
The food options were just fine for us. We split a breakfast platter one morning and only used 1 QS meal....it wasn't a huge amount of food but it was a good variety and there was something for everyone to nibble on before we ran off to the parks. We packed a few meals up for the drive home as well and it was all delicious!
The buses were fantastic. We rarely had to wait and they don't share with another resort so you'll get a direct route to each park. Oh, and as other have mentioned, the boat ride to DTD is great - very relaxing and enjoyable.
We are heading back in December but this time we're at POR. At first, I was so disappointed because we wanted POFQ but by the time we decided to book it, those rooms were already taken. So, like you, I've been bothering my hubby with the "do you think POR will be OK or should be pay more to go elsewhere???" He's about to move out of the house until we go on vacation! lol
Anyway, I really think you'll enjoy your stay at POFQ. If not, call me and I'll come take your place!
Good luck.