I know that our server from the Baltic is currently on the Dream, and I'd love to request him for our Dream cruises at the end of February, but DH is being weird about it... He thinks that our server wouldn't remember us and he would feel obligated to be "extra nice" and try too hard to please us. He thinks it will be awkward, but I think the server would appreciate that his work was so well-received last time that we chose to have him again. Anyway, on DH's behalf, would our server KNOW that we requested him without us telling him?