so sorry about the meltdowns
we had a few of those on our trip thankfully grandma was there to help us and having 4 bedrooms helped too
I am loving your report and you are giving me hope we should try going back one day
I'm sorry about your meltdowns, they are painful for everyone. But, oh...I hope you DO try again someday!!
I know it is soooo scary, but I think it's always ggod to try- because if it does work out- well, there's just nothing better! Sean did have a rough time adjusting to HRH- but he was fine with it after this night, so it was all, without question, worth it. Please keep me posted!!
You know Ellen - I was just thinking how well things were going for you after yesterday's update........
I guess going out of the bubble was a little disruptive for Sean. Oh well....
....I guess you couldn't really predict that for sure.
I hope he settles down and let's sleep kick in. It is really hard to go from a villa to a hotel room. I know how we felt in June. It doesn't matter how nice the room is.....the size difference is just so overwhelming and the contrast makes the hotel room actually feel smaller.
I hope Pods makes out OK on the cot. I think I'm definately seeing a 2BR villa in your family's future. Then Pods can get "first dibs" on the beds.
Anyho....yum, yum, yummy meal and martinis!
We have known him his whole life, and we always know SOMETHING is coming, but that doesn't neccessarily mean we know WHEN it is coming!!
He did, thankfully settle down when he got into bed with me, and slept soundly til morning, when he woke up his old happy self.
And I agree- very hard to go from 1 bdrm to a hotel room. It was tough on ALL of us, and it was a pretty nice hotel room!!
Poor, poor Pods..
He did sleep in the bed with timmy the next night- Tyler had the cot.
Oh how sad.
And after you had such a wonderful day together. I guess you have to take the good with the bad. Many times you said how surprised and thrilled you were that he handled things so well. Obviously you know things never go according to plan. Sometimes things are worse but there were a lot of times that were better!
How were the other boys when all this was going on? There's one picture of Tyler at dinner where he looks like he's just had ENOUGH! (They are all so handsome, by the way!)
Now what is that I see on the night stand? An after dinner drink to help calm your nerves?!
I know it wasn't funny at the time, but I LOVE this picture of Sean. Like he's thinking so hard about how he can get you guys to leave (and go back to Disney!) Good thing someone had the foresight to take pictures, even during a meltdown!
The boys were really good and patient with him...Tyler makes a big effort to talk very calmly and slowly, and tries to encourage him to relax or try things he's afraid of. Timmy is very sweet with him, but Timmy's ears are very sensitive (he had a TON of ear infections when he was a baby) so if Sean screams, Timmy has his hands over his ears. Timmy is the one who acts as Sean's voice- if we do something he knows Sean doesn't like (like trying to make him talk, or asking him too many questions) Timmy is the one who pipes in "Don't do that- Sean doesn't like it".
He was good at dinner- not a problem at all- so I think it's just a bad pic of Ty. But I do know what you mean.
And thanks, I think they're handsome, too.
Yes, it's true! I had another glass of wine in the room!! Truth be told, I probably should have had about 40!!
And I am sure that is EXACTLY what Sean was thinking in that picture- "How do I get these IDIOTS to leave this room and go back where we belong??? Screaming didn't work, stamping my feet didn't work.... CRAP! I never shoulda gotten outta that car!"
Pods took the pics (obviously it wasn't me) of which I remember thinking at the time...NOW is when you decide to get snap-happy??? NOW?????
Aaahhhhh....I'm sure anyone living this autism adventure will tell you...you HAVE TO be able to LAUGH...