thats lovelyThe value of our children is the mirror of ourself.
Children are a gift to us. No matter how we receive them. I mean, If we have birthed our child, or were provided a gift and blessing to our family through any other means, that was the plan for that child to reach our family. even if the genetics are not the same, the soul of that child was predeposed to be ours.
for families, that adopt, foster, inherit our child, no matter what age they reach us, there was a reason that special family was in the plan and meant to come in that special way. Just because the body could not for a physical means birth that baby, the delivery is just as special because of the special arrival. I saw God chooses the family, and the means that child arrives.
Our challange is to by our example and choices we provide these blessings a way to suceed in life...the tools they will need. Our culture, morals, that we bring with us from our heritage. If there are things in our heritage we would like to change for our children we can. If there are physical challanges in our children we can embrase that even in our darkest most trying moments. For in the blink of an eyelash that young one can be a grown adult, ill, make poor choices, or good ones.....or we can lose that child.
When my daughter passed away I faced her value I lost too. The most important thing she said to me as a teen was a out of all her friends' Mom's, I was the only really Mom. I was not trying to be their friend, but gave them guidance and love, Happiness, and consolded when boy friends broke hearts.
The heaviest heart felt moment, and the one I value the most in my memorie, was the hug, kiss and I love you Mom two days before she passed away. She was only 29, injured at 16 with a life altering injury of severe nerve pain. She passed away from a leak in her pain patch......they were recalled too late.
We never know the plan for our children, the value they provide in our lives we can never predict......but we can reflect if they have been taken from us.
I wonder what did I give and do gove to my children in values......
My youngest was at knoebels a few weeks ago, she is 12 almost 13. We were waiting to go on the Carrasell with the rings to catch. The prior ride she had grabbed the Brass ring and was given tickets for a free ride. As she waited in line, behind us were a few special needs young teens with either family or care takers. In her little voice (not her at home voice) she handed the tickets to the care taker of a young teen boy in a special needs chair. She asked could he use her ride she won. she told me he would not have the chance to reach for the Brass ring.....it meant something special to do for him because she had the pleasure of the win, by giving a gift.
When our children great a guest or adult withe graciousness, and courtesy. When our teaches or scout leaders say how kind and helpful they are, when a friend of theirs is hurt or being hurt they tell an adult and try to help.
Just some reflective thoughts I have on children, values and us.
dianne
The value of our children is the mirror of ourself.
Children are a gift to us. No matter how we receive them. I mean, If we have birthed our child, or were provided a gift and blessing to our family through any other means, that was the plan for that child to reach our family. even if the genetics are not the same, the soul of that child was predeposed to be ours.
for families, that adopt, foster, inherit our child, no matter what age they reach us, there was a reason that special family was in the plan and meant to come in that special way. Just because the body could not for a physical means birth that baby, the delivery is just as special because of the special arrival. I saw God chooses the family, and the means that child arrives.
Our challange is to by our example and choices we provide these blessings a way to suceed in life...the tools they will need. Our culture, morals, that we bring with us from our heritage. If there are things in our heritage we would like to change for our children we can. If there are physical challanges in our children we can embrase that even in our darkest most trying moments. For in the blink of an eyelash that young one can be a grown adult, ill, make poor choices, or good ones.....or we can lose that child.
When my daughter passed away I faced her value I lost too. The most important thing she said to me as a teen was a out of all her friends' Mom's, I was the only really Mom. I was not trying to be their friend, but gave them guidance and love, Happiness, and consolded when boy friends broke hearts.
The heaviest heart felt moment, and the one I value the most in my memorie, was the hug, kiss and I love you Mom two days before she passed away. She was only 29, injured at 16 with a life altering injury of severe nerve pain. She passed away from a leak in her pain patch......they were recalled too late.
We never know the plan for our children, the value they provide in our lives we can never predict......but we can reflect if they have been taken from us.
I wonder what did I give and do gove to my children in values......
My youngest was at knoebels a few weeks ago, she is 12 almost 13. We were waiting to go on the Carrasell with the rings to catch. The prior ride she had grabbed the Brass ring and was given tickets for a free ride. As she waited in line, behind us were a few special needs young teens with either family or care takers. In her little voice (not her at home voice) she handed the tickets to the care taker of a young teen boy in a special needs chair. She asked could he use her ride she won. she told me he would not have the chance to reach for the Brass ring.....it meant something special to do for him because she had the pleasure of the win, by giving a gift.
When our children great a guest or adult withe graciousness, and courtesy. When our teaches or scout leaders say how kind and helpful they are, when a friend of theirs is hurt or being hurt they tell an adult and try to help.
Just some reflective thoughts I have on children, values and us.
dianne