chris4disney
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- Feb 3, 2006
Need some advice here... our DS (4.5) just started preschool a couple weeks ago. He only goes two days a week (half day and all day), but he is having a really hard time with it. Basically up until now he has been "babysat" by me, DH, Grandma or a friend while DH and I are at work. We haven't ever needed official "daycare". Which has been great for us financially, but socially it has really affected DS's ability to adjust to preschool. His teachers tell me that he hardly talks and sobs off and on all day. It makes me feel like this horrible mother because these women must wonder what is wrong with this kid. They keep telling me that some kids have a harder time than others and that it will just take time. But if they only saw DS away from school... it's like night and day! At home we can't get him to sit still or keep quiet He's so smart and can navigate around a computer better than a lot of adults! I just wish there was something that I could do to make him more comfortable at school. Every time I drop him off I feel like crying in the car because I feel aweful that I've left him crying for me. But the more he cries, the more it makes me realize that he definitely needs to be there and prepare for Kindergarden. Our plan was for him to start Kindergarden next fall, but if he doesn't get better about preschool... I don't see how they'll let him in Kindergarden. And I know that next fall is a year away and a lot can change. I just hate to see my baby having a hard time.
Any suggestions or comfortings words for a stressed mom? TIA
Any suggestions or comfortings words for a stressed mom? TIA