
Woo hoo for you staying at WL! DH and I stayed there in a 1 bedroom villa for a week in 2009, absolutely amazing, loved everything about it. My nephew loved AKL, but I think WL was a close second.
As far as the wedding, remember it's the day for DH and you.
I'm the anti-wedding person. DH and I got married 7 weeks after we decided to, in our living room and we cherished those memories for the next 16 years. It suited "us" perfectly.
And believe me, we got more hassle about from everyone than we could believe. Luckily DH and I were in total agreement and it never caused a problem between us.
My MIL (wow, could I tell stories....) got up, left our house and wouldn't speak to my DH just because she knew we were going to tell her we were getting married!!
Funny story regarding name change, my (slightly unstable) sister screamed at me during the wedding ceremony (over the Reverend) because I was taking my DH name. Then she stormed out,slamming the door so hard she broke a window.
Luckily I'm used to her, she's no longer in my life after deserting me when my DH passes, so it didn't upset me.
I had a total of 18 years with my my DH, my soul mate, my DH, and I wouldn't trade that for anything in the world.
Sorry for TMI. Just trying to say that your love for your DF shines through everything you write and to hold onto that, ignore the "noise", and the people who love you will be there for you.
And, you never know, there may be a few lurker DIS people wishing you the best your special day!!!!!!


