Does anybody have ideas, trip reports, etc on how to do this etc, we will be very happy if you would be so kind to share with us.
Adele, congratulations on your upcoming wedding anniversary (and 40th birthday). My fellow Disers have given you excellent advice.
Disney's Fairy Tale Weddings website is a great place to start since it lists most of the basic information. I hope you can find the time to look through it.
I don't know how much help this will be, but I had a custom vow renewal a few years ago for my 20th wedding anniversary. The Fairy Tale Weddings folks did a wonderful job with it. When I began the planning process, I started out in the "Intimate" category -- that category is now called the "Escape Collection." As time moved forward, my needs changed and thus I moved into the "Custom" category (that category is now called the "Wishes Collection"). If you want to see what I went through as my vow renewal planning unfolded, please read my trip report:
click here. It should give you a general idea as to a few of the things that are possible with a vow renewal. Of course, for the final word on anything, you must speak with the Fairy Tale Weddings folks directly.
Because my photos have recently been moved to the Flickr website, I haven't found the time to share all of them publicly just yet. However, I have shared most of the albums that pertain to my vow renewal. If you go to the following website, just look for the "collection" entitled "Disney's Fairy Tale Weddings" --
click here. The professional photos in my albums were taken by Disneys photographers (the unprofessional photos were taken by family & friends).
I hope this helped. Again, congratulations on your upcoming wedding anniversary.