We will be there 11/3-11/12. We did the same week in 2018 and didn’t find it crazy at all, except for Epcot on the weekend. Epcot was absolutely insane the final weekend I was there in 2018. I lasted one hour in WS. It was probably due to it being F&W final weekend and Veterans Day fell that weekend too. I have all days at Epcot planned on weekdays this trip.
I believe 11/10-11/14 will also have Veterans Day in there which will add a bit (or a lot) to the crowds. I don’t think it being Jersey week really creates the massive crowds. I think it’s more the end of F&W and Veterans Day plus the extra sprinkle of Jersey folks. It’s why we chose to come in Thursday night (11/3) and leave the following Saturday (11/12) instead of doing Friday (11/4)to following Sunday (11/13).I have a feeling that weekend is gonna be insane so coming in earlier can hopefully help us out….maybe. I know I catch race weekend but I’ve never found that to create too much park congestion outside of Epcot.
I always see someone I know every trip I take to WDW. And I’ve only done Jersey week once. Us NJ folks just really enjoy WDW.