Would you go to a party without the guest of honor?

[stinkerbelle]

Originally posted by JenBlaze
His family STILL considers me rude for not showing up.

I hope you read the rest of this thread and saw me backtrack on this comment.

I TOTALLY understand the mom or bride to be not making it to their showers due to illness/bedrest/transportation issues/natural disasters/etc...

but for the host to KNOW the GOH is not going to be there and not tell anyone? totally different situation.