I am actually really laid back about most things....I shaved by the time I was in 4th grade as did many other kids...once we had to start dressing in shorts for gym it was time to start shaving....BUT...my daughter is 4 and I do not buy her any type of bikini bathing suit....I see no need for my 4 year old to be showing off all that skin! This year she picked a 2 piece out but it was a tankini and the shirt part came all the way down to the pants so it was like a one piece...I don't need some freak looking at any more of my daughter than a one piece bathing suit covers!