Why do SOME guys have to be such JERKS?!?!?!

[Sports Blondie]

before you jump to conclusions i don't mean all guys[there are some really awesome guys out there].
anyway here's the story:
Yesterday my BF was riding his bike and got hit by a car [it wasn't enough impact to seriously hurt him or anything and he's fine, but it's still scary]. I cried FOREVER last night when he told me.i only got about 4-6 hours of sleep last night. so today... some people that go to church with him [because it was right before church] opened thier mouth when they shouldn't have and some guys were evasedropping (sp?) and so they thought it would be funn and cool to make fun of me and even though he's fine i am not emtionally stable to be messed with. I came home and cried so hard and so much from being made fun of that i went to sleep. I CAN'T TAKE IT and I don't know how to deal/make them stop.

any advice??
I mean honestly how hard is it to be nice??
Why do they find joy in treating women this way??
Is it that hard to be aware of others feelings??
Please tell me that even though he was okay you would still cry and be upset.
I DON'T UNDERSTAND!!!

 

[ktbutterfly2011]

before you jump to conclusions i don't mean all guys[there are some really awesome guys out there].
anyway here's the story:
Yesterday my BF was riding his bike and got hit by a car [it wasn't enough impact to seriously hurt him or anything and he's fine, but it's still scary]. I cried FOREVER last night when he told me.i only got about 4-6 hours of sleep last night. so today... some people that go to church with him [because it was right before church] opened thier mouth when they shouldn't have and some guys were evasedropping (sp?) and so they thought it would be funn and cool to make fun of me and even though he's fine i am not emtionally stable to be messed with. I came home and cried so hard and so much from being made fun of that i went to sleep. I CAN'T TAKE IT and I don't know how to deal/make them stop.

any advice??
I mean honestly how hard is it to be nice??
Why do they find joy in treating women this way??
Is it that hard to be aware of others feelings??
Please tell me that even though he was okay you would still cry and be upset.
I DON'T UNDERSTAND!!!

Aww. I'm sorry. Some guys just don't know how to act. I think its cute that you were that worried about your BF. I probably would be too. Feel free to PM me with anymore problems.

 

[Sparx]

Just ignore them.

People suck.

 

[CastawayJ]

i think you should read my sig(its not what u think)

 

[DramaQueen]

some people are huge jerks. it is ridiculous.

my boyfriends brothers girlfriend got killed 2 years ago when she got hit by a car, and a year later when he started liking this new girl alot of people in their grade started making fun of the girl that he liked.

people are so insensitive. ignore it.
you just need to be strong and don't let it get to you.

 

[WORLDwarQUIFFLE]

Aw. I'm sorry.
I'm glad he's okay.

Just ignore those guys.
They'll eventually mature.

 

[Blumonkeyboy]

From a guys point of view, Just ignore them. Ive been ignoring ppl for years now and its kinda fun! but seriously just ignore them all and remember that you only beat them if you smile back

 

[PurpleDucky]

Aww honey I'm sorry, I'm glad he's okay
SOME boys can be extremely immature, they're just trying to push your buttons, don't let them
Like everyone said, ignore..or my personal favortie..injuring
BUT VIOLENCE DOESN'T SOLVE THE PROBLEM

 

[BeachBabi0]

yes, i probably would cry, im sorta emotional, i suppose. but he is ok, and thats what you have to think about here. and yes, some guys are jerks, but i think thats how its supposed to be. if people didnt tease you, then you wouldnt ever grow.

 

[rwrocksme]

That sucks! I wouldn't cry, I don't think, but I'm not really someone who cries when she's upset. I yell a lot. And throw things. And call my best friend. Also, I would have got to BF's house and taken him to the ER--but I'm very ER centric.

I don't know what to tell you about those jerks at your church. Here is what I would do- tell your BF, and see what he says. Ask him if he'll stand up for you if it happens again. Otherwise, just let it go. Those jerks don't deserve your attention.

BTW, I'm sorry about what happened to your BF. I'm glad he's ok!

 

[CastawayJ]

i think you should read my sig(its not what u think)

 

[CastawayJ]

i think you should read my sig (its not what u think)

please

 

[BabyPiglet]

i think you should read my sig (its not what u think)

please

I think she got the point.












Sweetie, most guys are huge jerks. Just ignore them, they're not worth it. PM for anything, to just talk, or rant, or virtually cry

Feel better

 

[The Skier Man]

im probably the last one 2 say anything but im sure theyre just jealous that ur so content. ive seen it PLENTY of times. there just jealous and thats how they vent it!