I completely understand when you don't have a car and you have booked the
DDP.... you really do have to play the game. My comment wasn't to point fingers at anyone but Disney because in all honestly, what can a guest really do if that's the way they have it set up. Either you play the game or you get skinned.
Still doesn't stop me from feeling sorry for those who aren't aware they need to book ahead or simply decide they want to try a new restaurant at WDW only to realize they don't have that option once they get there.
I agree that the resort restaurants can be a great alternative (although some of those can get booked well in advance, like for instance, Boatwrights... who-da thunk it?)
Here are a list of resort restaurants we generally have no problem getting into with anywhere from a minimal wait to no wait at all...
Kona Kafe (sometimes a wait, but generally no longer than 30 minutes and there is lots to look at while you wait).
The Pepper Market at CSR - We've never had a wait of any kind here no matter what time of day and they have some awesome choices and a nice atmosphere.
Beaches & Cream (Beach Club) - Yep, you'll probably encounter a wait if it's dinner time, lunch is usually not quite as bad, but they accept walk-ups and people don't usually linger so the tables move fast.
The Fountain (Dolphin Hotel). This is generally never crowded but the food is pretty basic and good for when you just need something to fill the void (ie: kids are over-tired, over hungry and can't wait a second longer for some food).
Trail's End (Fort Wilderness)... Probably one of our favourites. If you can make your way via the Disney buses to this resort, it's well worth the trip. I think you can make ressies here, but they also accept a good number of walk-ups. They have a buffet for breakfast/lunch/dinner and it's slightly less than most of the other WDW buffets. The food is great, the atmosphere is fun, and best of all, before or after dinner it's definitely worth a good look around especially for kids who enjoy the barnyard animals and fishing hole. Very serene and out of the way.