new orleans use to host the NATPE convention where the stars would come to sell their shows to syndication. when i was little, we'd go stand outside for autographs.
best: craig t. nelson, regis, oprah (before she was a giant and just starting out), kevin costner. (there are tons more)
worst: julia roberts, James spader. they stick out the most, because I liked them so much.
I drive a dressing room truck, (Honeywagon) and trailers for the actors on set. I hear you on James Spader, But, he suffers from severe OCD. I had him in my trailer for the movie, "Crash." He was "Quirky," and sometimes intolerable, but once he settled in, and got to know me, he was alright. He,, Spader, kept apologizing for being such a pain in the ***. He was really pretty cool once he knew my routines and the fact that I left the talent alone unless they needed something. We hung out and shot the breeze about life in general. He doesn't like watching people eat, which again he apologized for.
I give James Spader a lot of space, grace, and respect in that he knows he has a personality disorder but really tried to be a gracious guest, which for me he really was.
I'm going to name a lot of people as Ive driven for the studios for 38 years, so here's my list off of the top of my head.
The Super nice people are: These people went out of their way to be really nice and engaged me in conversation Allot: John Ritter had lunch with me a lot. What a sweetheart. Robin Williams, really shy, Super sweet guy. Shy, But loved talking with people behind the barricades, taking pictures with kids, and whoever wanted to time permitting, God rest him. Goldie Hawn and Kurt Russell were great, Jay Leno, Reba, Andy Griffeth, Willem Defoe. I helped him pick out a perfume for his wife. He bought what my wife wares, lol. Danny DeVito, Courtney Cox, Sandra Bullock, Tony Danza, John Travolta, Clint Eastwood, Terri Garr, Deone Perry, and Martin Barre of Jethro Tull, Sammy Hagar, Kaneu Reeves (I'm not sure how to spell his name), Paul McCartney, John Candy. John threw a wrap party for the crew, which are the electricians, Gaffers, Camera crew, honey wagon drivers, extras, (Most people treat the extras like garbage), craft service....it went on. A huge tent, tons of food, and a live band. What a wonderful man. He too left us too early. There are more, I'm forgetting.
Most actors are cool, it's the Directors who can be jerks. James Cameron is a complete D1ck!
Nice: Mell Gibson. Chain smoker! Very cool guy. Jennifer Aniston took me out for a coffee and talked cars for hours with me as she was looking for a new one. Thomas Gibson, Paul Rogers of Bad Company, Sylvester Stallone once he's comfortable. He's uncomfortable with the swooning thing. Matt Damon, Ringo Star, Ozzy Osbourne, Arnold Schwarzenegger, smoked a cigar with me every night after the shoot. Tom Hanks, Robert Plant, Ian Anderson of Jethro Tull, Kerry Washington, Bellamy Young, Scott Foley (Scandal). Bellamy is gorgeous like Kerry. Scott is really a funny, down-to-earth guy. John Paul Jones of Zeppelin, Denzel Washington was always nice to me. I saw him on a jerk list, but he was cool. Matthew McConaughey, Jaclyn Smith. I was in love with her since I was 15. I'm so glad she was sweet. Here's a surprise. Bill O'Reilly. Yes, him. We talked for hours while he was our guest. He was talking to a wife whose husband died. He offered to pay for her son's college tuition for two years. He was a nice man to me and obviously very generous. Who knew?
Total Asses: Steven Segal is unbearable, Jennifer Lopez, Will Ferrel was a jerk to fans as was his buddy, John C Reilly, Barbary Streisand. Wow, what a b1tch! Michelle Obama. What an entitled B1tch. Treated the little people like gum on her shoes. President Obama I heard was cool, but not his wife. Elen Degeneres is a b1tch, Buddy Rich, Gene Hackman, Rodney Dangerfield...What a Jerk! Tarantino is a weird dude, Jerry Lewis...a legendary jerk, Sharon Osbourne, Richie Blackmore, Sean Penn...Wow. I'll finish with Julia Roberts. I hd a crush on her. She was....unpleasant to put it lightly.
Allot of actors you can meet on a bad day. We all have them. so keep that in mind. I have a friend who met Kevin James while he was with his wife. Bad timing. He's a great guy! In my experience Never shout out their name, and never interrupt them while they're eating, especially with their family! Any of us would snap at some stranger if they did that, right?