WHIIINE...I need WISH'er help!

[lmhall2000]

Kath reminded me on the WISH check in thread that if I'm turning to comfort food that I need to turn to you guys! DUUUUUHHHHH!!I'm just naturally an upbeat kind of gal- and when I get handed a little bit of stress I try to shrug it off but somehow I comfort myself with food.
Here's the stress....
Dh found out last week that his company will move him to New Orleans in January. They're too small a company to pay for much relo so a concern is selling the house so we don't go in debt if he has to rent an apartment while we wait for it to sell. I homeschool our precious three children- and the thought of not having dh here for the kids is too much worry. Since we most likely will move anyway (not many software engineering jobs in Memphis area) we're trying to look at all opp's in areas where there is a bigger concentration. Texas appeals to us because it's still southern(something about a southern accent that makes me feel at home ) but a big enough tech industry where he could stay even if a defense contract falls through (he's contracted with the Department of Defense). So many "what if's" going around. I put the for sale by owner sign in the yard- that brings a whole slew of issues- having to keep the house in "show" condition with three kids while I homeschool and packing up a room at a time is making fixing healthy meals a chore. It's easier to run to fast food, make a peanut butter/jelly with doritos lunch, and those runs to the grocery for more fresh fruit/veggies are getting farther between.
So now I just need good thoughts/ideas on how to make it through the next two months and still manage to be a loser- I really want to lose 13 more pounds before New Years. There I'm done with my whining- the great news is that dh and I both are very excited about what will happen when we get where we're going- God has always shown us clearly that He's got our back...for that we are sooo grateful. And I'm sooo grateful for all the wonderful successes and support from you guys- I wouldn't have made it this far (54 pounds as of today!) without any of you!

Thanks guys!
Tara

 

[tlgoblue]

Tara! I know exactly how you're feeling. DH and I went through the same situation 3 years ago. It can be scary and wonderful all at the same time. I wish I had some suggestions for you about healthy eating. Not only is fast food quicker, it is a lot easier when trying to keep your house in show condition. Maybe you could think of some meals you could prepare in advance and store, so all you need to do is defrost/reheat. Maybe you could somehow work a trip to the market into your lesson plan, to give you an extra incentive to keep good things for you and your dear ones in the house. The most important thing you can do right now is sit down and make a priorities check list. What has to be done, what you feel needs to be done and what you would like to do. It gives you a reminder of why you are doing things that you may not want to do or may not be used to doing. It also gives you permission to put your diet on the back burner if necessary. Shoot for maintainace, if that is what needs to be done. Remember, moving is the 3rd most stressfull event in our lives, but it is a temporary situation. Take care of your family, treat yourself well, and remember God's got your back!

Keep the Faith!
Tracy

 

[Debbie]

Take care, Tara. You have a good attitude, and strong determination. You'll get through this bump in the road, I know. Now---scoot! Run and get those veggies. I'll get off the computer and clean mine up, too! With a glass of water close at hand. I'll race you to see who can make their New Year's goal first. (Mine is stalled, too, hun, so we're kind of on an even keel) Winner gets to....SMILE!!

 

[nativetxn]

{{{HUGS}}} Tara. I sure wish I lived near you, I'd come give you a hug in person.

I know this is a little scary for you but you know what? This could be the start of something wonderful. One door closes and another opens, remember?

It's going to be alright, I promise. You will make it through this and we're going to help you. If you want to aim for maintaining what you have already lost for a while, that might be a good idea. That will take some of the stress away.

We are always here, never forget that, and we truly care. Hang in there.

 

[KarenNY]

Tara, you have a positive outlook- that is defintely a plus. Like others have said, maybe just try to maintain while your stress level is high. I think the suggestion to make several meals and then just reheat is an excellent idea. Remember, we're here for you.

 

[PartyofSix]

Stop this right this instance. We will NOT go into maintance we will deal with this thru patience and faith right! RIGHT>. Okay since you don't have time to fix yourself healthy meals every meal get a back up plan. Now is the time to start and try those healthy choice meals and pizza's i've raved about. Have you one for lunch if your busy. I really love the lemon pepper fish and the pepporni, supreme and esp the veggie piazza's. They really do satifiy me. I take the piazza's and cut them into 1/2 "strips" and i sit down and relax and enjoy every single bite like it's a reward and if you'll do that cause you need to feel pampered and rewarded without the guilt this might help you get thru the next few weeks. Not to mention the holidays throwed at you too. You are so strong and so wonderful a person i just know you'll do better and not blow it. I'll be thinking up a challenge for you. I always wondered why can she have doritios in that house and nothing healthy when she's not been to the store? No No No i won't hear they are there for the kids either you can not tell me there's nothing else no chip you don't like your kids will love. You need to get off the doritos wagon. (((hugs))) to you Tara i know your having a hard time and the stress but you know sometimes you just have to take a self imposed time out and regroup yourself. Maybe on your walks you could "talk it over" with yourself and come up with a plan or take a few extra minutes in the bath and get your mind right. I know you can do this and i understand how stressful and hard this must be for both you and Louie I really hope the if's get answered for you guys very soon. And i second TX i can't wait to go and visit in June with KathyTX. She's wonderful and i know she's helped you get info on her wonderful state. Not raggin AL but I know you secretly are hoping TX. Keep your chin up and i'm here for you. And oh is'nt there somewhere you have to be April 30th the date you are suppose to hit goal? Better not slack .

 

[lmhall2000]

My dh came into the living room and grinned, "Well, I've had my first offer!" I knew not to get too excited by the sarcastic look on his face. He was offered an engineering job in Baghdad!! The pay was great- twice what he's making now and they tried to reassure him it was in the "green" zone but I think we'll pass on that one. But it is a start!
Tara

 

[DoeWDW]

I know when one door closes, another opens, but I doubt you expected it to open on Baghdad....LOL! Tara, good things are right around the corner for you and your family. Just try to find the humor, take care of yourself and wait expectantly for them.