Haven't been to a dessert party yet...going to my first on 12/8. Also going to H&V for the first time on 12/5...will let you know my thoughts. SW will cost more, since you'll prob. need to eat a QS meal with 9 year old. Is she into Star Wars? I'm guessing 9 would like the dessert party, 2 would prefer HV, so it's a toss up!