Thanks for all the helpful information. I started to respond to various pieces of helpful stuff and realized I was quoting the whole thread. You are all great!!!
I am hesitant to get the Liberty b/c as Kelly8863 says it is HUGE,( btw Kelly I have loved hearing about your wish trip in your report. So glad you had some Disney magic at the Cinderella dinner) I think based on the other responses she may be most comfortable in the Liberty.
Thanks mum2two for giving me the heads up on the Maclaren not reclining. That would have been a big oops!
I am looking into the citi classic in a double as she seems to be right at the max size for it. I am not sure she would be comfortable though as Orlando strollers e-mailed me a pic of a girl her size and she looked a little tight on room. I am trying to find any of these strollers Liberty or Citi to try locally.
I am starting to stress out a little though as I may end up using an
ECV myself

I have been having a recurring knee problem that started bothering me after the baby was born in Dec. I started PT this week and the therapist was honest with me today and said she thinks I should be ready to use a wheelchair as my knees are not great right now. My stress is that I was going to be one of the "pushers" as we have 2 in a stroller still, dd on chemo needing wheelchair or stroller and a 6 year old who might need a ride by the end of the day!
Does anyone know if they will let you tag a double stroller as a wheelchair? If I use the citi, I could put the baby in one and dd in the other if it will work for her.
Thanks again to all for your input. This board is awesome!