Tough question to answer......It all depends on what you and the family likes.
Do you like being able to walk to any park? BWV and BCV
Do you like a boat ride to a park? BWV, BCV, VWL
Do you like the monorail resorts? BLT
Pools and activities? BCV Storm-A-Long Bay is great for kids but is widespread and can be tiring to watch the little ones.
Animals? AKV - not sure about the differing views we have never stayed there.
Nightly activities? Boardwalk area is great for that and has some adult venues as well.
Point wise SSR and OKW have great rooms and the points to stay are a little lower then all the previous resorts mentioned. But BWV does offer standard views with low point requirements.
Good Luck