We have always driven to WDW, drove down with our two little ones in October and will do so again this year.
I know getting a cheap airfare will help, but you also need to take into consideration the value of having your own vehicle at WDW, even if you will be using Disney's transportation.
The kids love the DVD player. We armed ourselves with stacks of their favorite movies. We brought toys. And arranged our departure and arrival times to best suit their schedules.
For us, I could not imagine not having our own car to off site if we need to. We do grocery shopping down there, so our car comes in handy. Plus, with the little ones, we take a lot of our "stuff" from home (pack-n-plays, etc.)
You have to remember the hidden costs of each.
Let's look at your potential expenses flying vs. driving.
Flying: Let's just say you find a cheaper airfare of $150.
Airfare = $900
Airport parking? 5 days = approximately $50.
Need to rent a pack-n-play? That's $50.
Need groceries once your arrive (snacks/drinks)? Consider the extra cost of food vs. that of shopping at
Walmart on your own. For example, Walmart's Gerber Graduates entree = $1.99, Netgrocer = $2.75.
Total = Roughly $1000
Driving: I figured mileage from Philadelphia since I don't know where exactly you live. I'm not including food during the ride down or back because it's not exclusively an expense of the trip. At home, at WDW, or on the road, there's always a food expense (which can be decreased by packing snacks and drinks from home).
Estimated gas (mini van gas mileage) = $300 roundtrip
Hotel room (for splitting the drive) = $200 total w/ tax
Bring your own pack-n-play.
Bring your own snacks.
Have your own vehicle to buy food once you're there.
Total = Roughly $500
Driving for your family will be about half the cost than flying if you can get a super cheap airfare. That money could be used put toward your accommodations at WDW. Or, for us, that would be $500 less that we would have to budget for our trip.
If the thought of driving is absolutely horrifying to you, then the extra money will be worth it. It's all about what we think we can endure for 15, 10, 5, or even 1 hour in the car with kids.
