Well here is a little update. I actually saw this doctor/sirgeon twice lately. lst time dh went with me, We bought cookies for him and the staff to share and I wrote him a thank you note with a picture of our family in it.
Today I had to go back to the surgeon for more testing. This time ds19 went with me. I said this is the dr. who saved my life etc. as ds had never met him. After all my testig which praise god is pretty normal, he thinks its a combo of cancer post op stuff, and 2 other things. But he said, I took the time to read your note and it was very nice. You should be a writer!!

I had also enclosed a picture of the family that was our christmas picture we sent out with our reg. christmas cards.
I said Dear Dr. R., I know I told you thank you in the ICU for saving my life, but once is not enough. Thank you again for saving my life. Because of you my husband has a wife and my sons have a mom. I guess you will never forget me and how I was your first surgery here at xxx, sincerelyxxx
Then I asked him if he ever had a patient in his other practice before he moved here that had the rare cancer I have and he said...no. Oh, I guess someone has to be the rare one