Wow this disccussion is quite interesting I've never really thought of all the different personal situations that people come into the parks with. I will definately keep them in mind while I do travel. I have to say that peeves definately don't completely overshadow the magic for me although I do have a few. Most of which are the same as everyone elses smoking (in non-designated areas), strollers (when they are being mashed into my legs), people (when they aren't doing what I want
Some different ones
ECV's when a person has no control what so ever a lady the other day at Seaworld ran over my brother's feet knocked a guy over and gave another gal a huge bruise. Dangerous if you ask me I wish someone would show everyone how to use emergency stops on those. Someone could be seriously injured.
Vacuume toilets they are sure loud in the morning.
The fact that some of the animal exhibits don't have that much information around them. When I was looking at the living seas the other day at the Manatee's there wasen't any info about them being commonly hit by boats etc... I was sitting there explaining it to people. It makes me sad to see a lack of info on something that is so simple to educate about. Even after I asked a cast member about the one with the damaged tail I did not find out the animal's story.
The green lanyards more than once I've only wanted to trade for a simple rack pin for a friend but was unable to do so. Yes, I could buy them but as a college student I have limited funds and since I had pins I had bought for reasonably cheap I wish I could trade. I love having kids involved heck I often trade with children just for the fun of it but the lanyards being kids only is annoying to me personally. (I know not everyone feels this way)
People being rude/inconsiderate which happens everywhere of course but in the parks I am exposed to more people and therefore more rude behaviors. Of course I have talked to many interesting people from all of the world in the parks which is a lot of fun as well. It's always interesting to see what they think your part of the country is like.
The fact that the Disney always makes Lion King stuff that is so kewl that I just have to have it.
I am sure there are other things but those are what I can think of right now.