Married - got together in high school, married a week after college graduation. 20 years total.
I tell her marriage is like Shawshank. “These walls are funny. First you hate them, then you get used to them, then you can’t live without them. They send you here for life and that’s exactly what they take.”
She says she doesn’t find it funny except she smirks before saying that she doesn’t find it funny.