I much prefer Florida if I am honest and have been lucky to go a dozen times, it's where I will always want to go.
However, we just find for a few reasons DLRP suits our needs better at the moment.
Our son seems happier in Paris, doesn't have the humidity, long flights and more to cope with plus is better suited by a week's holiday than a long haul one of 2 weeks or more these days. The cost of going to WDW is also getting out of hand, and with his special needs in mind we have to cater for his happiness and we have had a few issues on Florida holidays with him.
We have only been to DLRP 3 times, 2 of which we went out of peak season but when the weather was pleasant and found a good offer on the
Disneyland Hotel. We find it less stressful and a very enjoyable relaxing holiday.
It's the combination of staying at the DLH, having reasonable weather and the Disneyland Park so closeby that makes the holiday work, I think Joshua gets a comfort from familiarity and knowing the park is just a couple of minutes from the room means we can enjoy more time there, late in the day he will go for his shoes letting us know he wants to go out (he cannot talk), whereas isolated in a Kissimmee villa 30 minutes from the parks he would be less keen.
I suppose the milder climate overall suits him more, whilst we have wonderful Florida memories with him, he seems calmer and happier at DLRP.
It's also nice to be able to go out for a drink etc and not have to drive. You feel you are almost staying at the park itself here, the rooms are fab, the staff are helpful and friendly plus the breakfast is very good too. It feels special staying there.
Personally once away from the hotel or main park I just don't get that buzz or feeling of magic in the air. However, Joshua seems to love it and has such a good time, I can't stress how much the lovely hotel and main park so near is a benefit to us, it's what makes the holiday special.
So much so that to be honest I wouldn't want to go there unless we stayed at the DLH, especially as have been able to get significant savings when we have been there, I don't particularly like either the Studios or the Disney Village at DLRP ( I would go as far as saying I really dislike the Village), but the combination of the DLH/Disneyland Park and touch wood some nice weather seems to suit the boy.
It's also nice popping on the train to a nice mall and outlet store just a few minutes away.
The fact everything is close together is a big plus point, the Disneyland Park is easily as good as WDWs Magic Kingdom, I just think the rest falls a little short.
Having said all that, we have had a great time each visit and the boy loves it there.