I am enjoying everyones' perspective on this. I hope we get lots more replies. To me, the magic is the feast for the senses I find at Disney parks and resorts. Everything is so picture perfect, the grounds, the archictecture and trim details of the buildings, all the antiques and decorative accents that provide a realistic atmosphere of being in a different time or place. The themeing aspect is enchanting. Disney really captures the essence of other times and places and lets you experience it first-hand. To me that is magical. I love the parks and I also enjoy going to the various resorts and walking the grounds. No matter where we are staying, we always go to the Polynesian for breakfast and have Tonga Toast. The staff actually gave me the receipe a couple years ago after I told them we come to Disney most every year just so we can have Tonga Toast! I also particularly love the ambience of the Wilderness Lodge and Animal Kingdom Lodge. We stayed at the Hilton Head resort last year and loved it, also. When we spent the following week at a non-Disney property that was very nice, my husband said, "It's just another beautiful resort!" I had to laugh because I knew what he meant. The resort was lovely but it didn't have the themeing that gave Disney Hilton Head real character and charm.
I am getting to be such a devotee of themeing that I am actually trying to figure out how to "theme" the new house we are building. Is that silly, or what?! We have 15 acres of land with 9 acres of woods and trails, a cedar sided "southern farmhouse" style home with three dormers and a full length front porch. We also have a big carriage barn building that will serve as car storage, wood-working and hobby shop, and antique storage (my husband is an antique dealer). There is also another outbuilding that looks sort of like a little train station with a loading dock. It's starting to shape up to have quite a lot of atmosphere already, so I just need to find the right angle to achieve my year-round Disney-type magic atmosphere. Boy, I really must have the Disney Bug, bad, huh?