I think of real vacation as our once a year getaway to someplace we either fly to, or drive at least 8 hours to get to, and stay at least one week. Throughout the year we take at least 3-4 long weekend getaways, but I've never called them vacations, I usually just say "we're going to Vegas, etc. for the weekend".
I have a friend who insists we go on vacation all the time because we drive from Ohio to Syracuse (6.5 hours) several times a year to visit the in-laws. NO, staying with my MIL for 3 days and following her rigorous family itinerary (which always includes church at least once) is NOT a vacation! This friend also thinks we always go to NYC when we go...I can't get it through her head that NY is a BIG state and NYC is at least a 5 hour drive and we've went ONCE from Syracuse, lol.
Travelling is the #1 hobby for both my husband and I. It comes down to choices and priorities, and it's where most of our disposable income is spent. We'd love to do some updates to our 1970's swinger palace we bought, lol, but a trip wins out over new carpet every time! We were at a friend's the other night and he had just ordered new rims for his car for about 1K, all I could think about was "that's a weekend trip for us!". Our trips this year included a weekend in Vegas (dh&I), a girlfriends long weekend in Florida, a weekend trip to Kennywood in PA (with our 6 year old DD), a week in Puerto Rico with all our kids - that was our "vacation", and DH and I are going to New Orleans for 4 nights next month to celebrate my 40th birthday. Whew, sounds like a lot, but not enough in my book! I was hoping to take our 3 daughters to Chicago for a mother/daughter weekend but that might have to wait til next year. DD6 really wants to go to the American Girl Place!
DH travels for work a lot too and maybe once a year I tag along depending where he goes - he's headed to Atlantic City on Wed. for 3 days and I'm going along. He'll be working during the day, I plan to read, drink and do a little gambling, but I still can't call it vacation for some reason!
