ForTheLoveofDisney
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I have recently started back employment with an employer that I had worked for before. And the other day a coworker and I were having a discussion about taking time off from work.
I am a huge advocate for downtime and vacations and just time away from the office to regroup which in reallity enables us to be more productive.
This particular coworker has been with the company for 6 years and in ALL that time, she has only had one full week of time (that means 5 consecutive days in a row) off, and that was for her honeymoon 3 years ago. The best she can hope to get is a Friday or a Monday or she said very rarely maybe a Friday and a Monday for a long weekend.
I used to work in the HR department of this company and I know from the time I was in the position (which was about a year) that this girl was telling the truth. She was ALWAYS there and very rarely was ever out except for the occasional Friday and Monday. I was personally thinking that I wouldn't stand for it that I would demand my time off but she said when she started in the position she was a single mom who needed her job and now she is the one who provides the benefits for a family of four. She says she can't afford to lose the job so even though she gets resentful she remembers why she's here, and that's for the benefits for her family and also because her husbands job as a contractor isn't always steady. She related to me how it has been "made known" to her that she just can't have a week off. She even told a story of how her grandmother who had been very sick had taken a turn for the worse and when she called to tell her manager that she had to rush to the hospital for her grandmother, the manager gave her a hard time and so the girl relented to come in at noon. She said she's afraid to push the issue because #1 she needs the job, #2 the guilt that is put on her. #3 the attitude she gets about it. As if she were a bad person asking to use the time that the company says she gets.
I was talking to my manager about how it's terrible that people are made to feel they can't take any time off and how we all need down time and time away and then she shared with me that she hasn't taken a full day off (with the exception of the time her mother fell and broke her hip she took a week off) in 5 years either. She said that she takes half days here and there but basically she can't take off because no one else can do her job, which is true. She started the position and the department and no one else has had the time or the desire to learn her position because everyone is stretched so thin doing their own jobs. She said that's why she's so glad I'm here, now, because she is teaching me to do her job which really isn't hard but as I said even if others wanted to learn what she does, they don't have the time either. She says that when I'm comfortable to do her job she'll be so glad just to take a day or two to herself. She said if it weren't for her mother, who is 95 and lives with her, she'd be so gone but she needs the job and can't afford to lose it.
I guess it's just sheer will that drives these people and helps them to get out of bed in the morning.
So after all of that I remembered reading an article about people pushing for Mandatory paid time vacation so I did a search on the internet to see if I could find anything about it and I found this website Work to Live Campaign
It has a chart which breaks down what other countries receive and are protected by law in the way of time off.
The reason it's so hard to get a vacation and so hard to enjoy one when you manage to squeeze part of one in is that the U.S. is the only country in the industrialized world without a minimum paid-leave law.
I've been to Disney and made acquaintances with people from Great Britain and other countries who are on "2 week holiday" and they certainly didn't seem rushed or commando style with their time. No wonder, they're given time off to enjoy life.
So, with all of this I'm wondering what some of your opinions are and what your reaction to the website is?
Thanks for your time to all who have stuck with me to the bottom of this post.
April
I am a huge advocate for downtime and vacations and just time away from the office to regroup which in reallity enables us to be more productive.
This particular coworker has been with the company for 6 years and in ALL that time, she has only had one full week of time (that means 5 consecutive days in a row) off, and that was for her honeymoon 3 years ago. The best she can hope to get is a Friday or a Monday or she said very rarely maybe a Friday and a Monday for a long weekend.
I used to work in the HR department of this company and I know from the time I was in the position (which was about a year) that this girl was telling the truth. She was ALWAYS there and very rarely was ever out except for the occasional Friday and Monday. I was personally thinking that I wouldn't stand for it that I would demand my time off but she said when she started in the position she was a single mom who needed her job and now she is the one who provides the benefits for a family of four. She says she can't afford to lose the job so even though she gets resentful she remembers why she's here, and that's for the benefits for her family and also because her husbands job as a contractor isn't always steady. She related to me how it has been "made known" to her that she just can't have a week off. She even told a story of how her grandmother who had been very sick had taken a turn for the worse and when she called to tell her manager that she had to rush to the hospital for her grandmother, the manager gave her a hard time and so the girl relented to come in at noon. She said she's afraid to push the issue because #1 she needs the job, #2 the guilt that is put on her. #3 the attitude she gets about it. As if she were a bad person asking to use the time that the company says she gets.
I was talking to my manager about how it's terrible that people are made to feel they can't take any time off and how we all need down time and time away and then she shared with me that she hasn't taken a full day off (with the exception of the time her mother fell and broke her hip she took a week off) in 5 years either. She said that she takes half days here and there but basically she can't take off because no one else can do her job, which is true. She started the position and the department and no one else has had the time or the desire to learn her position because everyone is stretched so thin doing their own jobs. She said that's why she's so glad I'm here, now, because she is teaching me to do her job which really isn't hard but as I said even if others wanted to learn what she does, they don't have the time either. She says that when I'm comfortable to do her job she'll be so glad just to take a day or two to herself. She said if it weren't for her mother, who is 95 and lives with her, she'd be so gone but she needs the job and can't afford to lose it.
I guess it's just sheer will that drives these people and helps them to get out of bed in the morning.
So after all of that I remembered reading an article about people pushing for Mandatory paid time vacation so I did a search on the internet to see if I could find anything about it and I found this website Work to Live Campaign
It has a chart which breaks down what other countries receive and are protected by law in the way of time off.
The reason it's so hard to get a vacation and so hard to enjoy one when you manage to squeeze part of one in is that the U.S. is the only country in the industrialized world without a minimum paid-leave law.
I've been to Disney and made acquaintances with people from Great Britain and other countries who are on "2 week holiday" and they certainly didn't seem rushed or commando style with their time. No wonder, they're given time off to enjoy life.
So, with all of this I'm wondering what some of your opinions are and what your reaction to the website is?
"When millions of hard-working Americans are afraid to take their vacations for fear they will be replaced or bypassed for promotions if they do so, we have to have the protective recourse of a law. When the volatile economy forces workers in their forties and fifties to start their paid-leave banks over again at one or two weeks when they join a new company, as if they were at their very first job, it's not too much to insist from the political leaders that we empower that they make every effort to right this ridiculous state of affairs. Having to constantly prove ourselves worthy of vacation time till the day we retire is an insult to the efforts beyond the call of duty that working Americans put in every day to keep this country's economy growing." --Joe Robinson, WORK TO LIVE
Thanks for your time to all who have stuck with me to the bottom of this post.
April