Thanks so much for the responses. Im good with staying offsite in regards to extra room. I definitely think we will like it better than the five of us stuck in a tiny hotel room.
I am a researcher by nature....I research the crap outta things

So I think that is also why I am nervous about picking a location.
The pool isn't as important to me because I don't know if we will have time to do that. We have one so the novelty has worn off. With that being said, my kids will probably prove me wrong
I have showed them some of the places and to my surprise my younger kids nixed any of the Mickey themed bedrooms. They said "too babyish". So I am targeting homes/condos that maybe have the privacy for all my kids...tv and possibly a game room..although that isn't as important.
I can totally see us coming back from the parks and letting my kids do what they want while my husband and I watch a movie with some cocktails!
I reaaaally like the look of the Reunion condos. I have some from Reunion vacations and two that seem to have good reviews...as long as they aren't fake

But it also looks so upscale to me that I wonder how kid friendly it truly is . I have heard it's further from Disney but not that big of deal. One has the passes for the water park and the other does not.
Windsor hills wise..I have heard pretty positive things and am pretty sure I would be happy there too. The ones I have found are vrbo and more windsorhillsrents submissions.
Then I did find a couple emerald isle ones. The one is a home from an owner but no reviews. The other is a fabulous looking home but only one review and it isn't current.
I just get nervous that they are not going to be what I had hoped..but I guess a hotel room will be the same.!