Welcome aboard. I am doing weight watchers at work and am the only male. I have reached goal and am now a lifetime member. I tried doing weight watchers with my wife a few years ago, her going to meetings and me following the plan with her like you are doing. Worked OK, but lost interest.
This time I attended meetings. Made all the difference in the world. I was now accountable for weighing in in front of someone. No kidding myself. To me it made all the difference in the world. Yea it's not cheap, but going to meetings and weighing in is what made it work for me. On Sunday if I wanted something, I had to think about weighing in on Tuesday. Made me think twice about a lot of foods until I got in the habit of eating mostly right.
Maybe if you weighed in in front of your wife every week, or someone at work that would track your weight for you. Again, keeps you accountable. It is easier to lie to yourself alone in the bathroom. OK, that didn't sound right, but that is where my scale is
Below is a post I put on the Events board in response to someone talking about exercising and eating right, drinking water and not eating fried foods.
Hang in there, you can do it.
Duane
"First need to mention that I joined Weight Watchers at work last July. A lot of this had to do the the WW program. There are other great programs and just good common sense, so I am not touting WW, it's just the program I used that taught me how to eat healthier.
I run around 19 - 21 miles a week. Time just really doesn't allow more until I get my weekend runs up over 10 miles. I used to run less than 10 miles a week but needed to bump it up becasue the weight wasn't coming off like I needed.
I normally do not eat fried food. Do I like it? YEA! But, I don't normally eat it. It is amazing that the longer you don't have something the less you really want it. I did have fried haddock while up in Syracuse, but that was on vacation and doesn't count, as you say, it is a scientific fact! Besides, it was fish. Anyway, I eat pretty healthy now and don't miss a lot of the other stuff I ate. I still love Pizza and Chinese and once every couple of months we'll splurge on some fried chicken.
I drink a lot of water. More than 64 oz per day, usually. I always have a bottle of after with me at work, in the car and at home, so I don't really count the ounces.
I feel great. I lost 32 lbs and have been at weight watchers goal for a few months now. Went in for my pre op for the surgery on Friday and they mentioned how low my resting heart rate was. I just kind of smiled because that doesn't happen by accident, it took a lot of work.
So, bottom line is this is basic healthy information that is taught by weight watchers and other programs, except the 20 miles a week part. But they do stress exercise.
Anyone can do this, just need to want to. I went to lunch twice this week with some people at work that are in WW but complain that they aren't losing weight. First of all they do not exercise. At lunch they ordered very fattening food, most of it fried, and ate a lot of it. The only reason I say this is that these programs work. The folks, which I love dearly, will now tell people they tried WW and it didn't work. Well ya it does, you just need to do what you are supposed to do. I'm not a perfect eater by any means, but compared to how I ate a year ago, I am a saint OK, off my soapbox."