We ended up not buying, and here's why ...

Dreamfinder2

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We had already paid our deposit and got our member's guide, public offering statements, tote bag, all the paperwork in hand. Was I pumped!

Then ...

My mother's diagnosed with cancer. The prognosis isn't good. She's a widow, I'm an only child, I live 300+ miles away. You get the picture.

DS graduates from HS this year. Naturally, we've known this all along! He has elected to join the United States Marine Corps, and we are supporting him in this major decision. DW is handling this pretty well, but you mothers out there know how this kind of decision could weigh on you.

So, in a fateful discussion around the kitchen table, we looked once again at all the DVC materials. Even though fincances aren't the deciding factor, with the family situation being so uncertain, and an awareness that whatever time I may be able to spare being spent on trips to check on my mom, we've elected to put the DVC on indefinite hold.

I am struck with what a grevious, hard decision this was; but in another sense, there's a quiet sense of peace that we've made the right call. As much as we love Disney, and as cooly rational as I can be in knowing that this is a family investment, certainly it's not getting any cheaper nor is 2042 any farther away -- it's still the right thing. I'm sad, but I'm content.

I'd have to say that I've learned so much lurking around these boards, and the comments posted here were what moved us in the DVC direction in the first place. It IS kinda like family, isn't it?

Finally -- I'm looking on this as simply a dream deferred. A little delayed gratification is not a bad thing for me! In the grand scheme of things I trust DVC will take its proper place, and we WILL be joining you all soon -- of this, I'm convinced.

As a small consolation, I was able to snag a long weekend at Coronado Beach (one resort we haven't tried)in two weeks for $89/night. Not the same as a Grand Villa, certainly, but a nice spontaneous "fix" nontheless.

Thank you all for keeping the info coming.

Remembering when ... there was a Treasure Island in Bay Lake.
 
Life takes funny turns sometimes. I'm sorry you've had to put off DVC but your reasoning makes sense. There is only so much vacation time available and it's hard to plan when things are uncertain. Who knows, maybe you'll be off to exotic locations to visit your son! I'm also sorry to hear about your mom.

Please stick around this DVC to share your thoughts and opinions with others and to help when you are ready to reconsider DVC.
 
puts everything else in its proper perspective. Hopefully, you will have a good result in all that you are dealing with. I will keep a good thought for you and your family. God bless.
 
Oh dreamfinder, I'm sending pixie dust your way, and I wish you and your family all the best!

yes we are like family here, and we wait w/open arms for you to join us in the future!!! (hopefully soon!!!)

Laura :)

4/97 - offsite (Hyatt)
6/98 - GF (honeymoon)
12/99 - Grand Floridian
9/00 - Grand Floridian
1/01 - Grand Floridian
4/01 - AKL, BWV & Poly
7/01 - YachtClub lagoonview concierge
10/01 - BWV & VWL
1/02 - running Disney's 26 mile marathon!!
 

I'm very sorry to hear about your mother. I know just what you are going through. We had a big trip planned at Disney for my dad's 65th birthday in December 96, the whole family was going, when my dad was diagnosed with cancer in March 96, and passed away three months later. None of us had it in us to continue with that trip, so we cancelled it. We all ended up going the following year, Nov 97 for WDW's 25th anniversary celebration. We had a great time, but it just wasn't the same without my dad. Joining DVC is a very joyous occasion filled with excitement, and I can understand how that just doesn't fit in with your life right now. Good luck to you and your family, and when you need a few words of sympathy or when you just want to get your mind away from the problems of life, please join us here on these wonderful boards.

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We put off joing DVC 8 years ago until we found out how our son was doing.( He had a brain tumor removed). Once we got the good news form the docs(and there were plenty of them) we bought.
Un fortunately his brain tumor came back 7 years
later and he had to have surgery again. But thanks to god that he is still alive and will be 19 in Oct.
Sorry for ranting about myself.
Hope your mom has peace.
God bless.
 
My families thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time. Always remember, we are like family on this board and please keep in touch. Maybe we'll see you as one of the first owners of the new DVC Beach Club!!

Wishing your son all the best in the Marines!!

Rosemary
Off-site every year since 1985
PO '96, '97, '99
Coronado '00
WL '94, '00
CB '98
VB '97, '98, '00
DVC member '00 OKW
DxL '97, '01
BWV '01
 
I'm sure sorry to hear about your mom, Dreamfinder. God bless her and your whole family.

I hope we get to keep on visiting with you by way of these boards! Thanks for sharing what's going on for you.
 
So sorry to hear about your mom. These are difficult times for a family to go through. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. We hope you will continue to stay in touch. Take Care.

Have a wonderful day!
 
Although I am new to these boards ,my family and I have been members of the DVC since 1993 and have a special feeling for the other DVC families.
I'm sorry that you could not join at this time but we still consider you part of our group. Hopefully you can join us sometime soon. In the meantime, be assured that we are all thinking of you and hope that everything turns out OK.
 
Just wanted you to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. I hope all goes well with yur Mom. I've been there. Decisions are not always easy, but after all is said and done you have to do what's right for you. Good Luck and God Bless.
 
WOW, You have way too much on your plate right now to feel good about DVC. Deal with what you have to and when the time is right, and you WILL know it, then join. DVC, and it's resales aren't going anywheres and neither are all of us. I share your pain as I lost my mom on Easter Sunday 2 years ago and for us it was her passing that brought us to DVC. We live our lives differently now as none of us hold a crystal ball to know what the future holds. Enjoy each moment with your son and mom as they need you and your wife most now. I hope everything will be ok for all of you.
 
You folks have been an amazing encouragement to us. It's gonna be OK. And we WILL be DVC members when I know in my bones the time is right. In the meantime,I'll be around. Thanks!

Who'd have thought you could've gotten such an outpouring of sympathy from folks you've never met? Is that amazing or what?
 



















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