Love Vampire Diaries, it's my guilty pleasure. Damon and Stephan....drool.
Ok back to reality, Lia only lasted about 4 days in her bassinet, like Aria she was a very noisy sleeper and I didn't get any sleep. Finally after 3 or 4 days of massive exhaustion, DH said she was going in her bed. I have no regrets, except that I basically bought a bassinet for nothing. She's been sleeping great in her own room since then.
Lia will be turning 1 in 2 weeks and she'll just have turned 18 months when we go. Returning to work wasn't as bad as expected, especially with being gone for a year. I think it helped that I started bringing Lia gradually to the babysitter 2 weeks before I actually started work. She isn't in daycare, it's a close friend that used to work in daycare that babysits her. She had her son 2 weeks before I had Lia and decided to stay home and babysit 2 babies. So she has her son, Lia and another baby boy that is a day older than Lia. Knowing that she's well taken care of helps the working part.
For our trip, we'll be at BCV, I kept going back and forth between BCV and BLT, ultimately DH decided because I couldn't make up my mind. We'll be there from Sept 30th to October 7th. I don't have any set plans yet, we'll see as time goes on. I'm waiting on October hours, to really start planning.