Holly, my heart goes out to you and Tyler...and to his dad. Kelly gave a wonderful assessment of the situation. My experience has been from the side of the school and the teacher. It was beyond frustrating to see a child suffer because the parent(s) were unable, for whatever reason, to take the steps necessary to get that child some help. No one is the "bad guy" in these situations; everyone--child, parents, school, classmates--is affected and I tried to remember that even if it didn't seem that way to me, everyone was doing the very best they could in that moment to cope with what was happening.

to you as you trudge along this path and don't give up!