my kids love the kids clubs! in fact it is next to impossible to get them to leave. i think they realy appreciate that while there are structured activities throughout the day, there are always alternate activites available if you are not interested in the main task at hand (a very good thing for my son who was just shy of 5 on our last cruise and is not always into doing a highly stuctured craft or activity). as far as the meals go, we did'nt hear any complaints-in fact we upstairs at the buffet one day as saw our daughter and her group come in. they had some tables set aside for them, took them through the main buffet line-but they did tell them ahead of time it was one trip through the line as a group and not to take more than they could eat.
i think like the others have said-it depends on the child. my daughter (will be 11 on our november cruise) is very social and loves making new friends in the club, our son will be 8 1/2 and is not always adaptable to new situations and people, but he remembers EVERYTHING he did in the kids club last time and also still talks about how nice "the grownups in the club" were. they also both liked the fact that if they wanted to leave they had only to tell one of the counselors and we were immediatly paged to pick them up.
i'm sure everyone on this thread will agree-the kid's club staff are some of the nicest, most patient people you will ever encounter, unlike staff on other cruiselines-all of the staff on disney cruises are so kind and considerate to the kids (to everone for that matter). it always amazes me how the cabin stewards always know every kid by name, take the time to talk to them (and will often take stuffed animals you've left in the cabin and put them into some type of cute arrangement on the bed or have one sitting on top of the tv peeking down at you. the restaurant staff will pick up on your child's likes and dislikes and will make sure they accommodate them (at our first dinner on board our waiter found out my daughter likes marissino cherries in her soda, so every night when we sat down there was already a berry dish of cherries waiting at her plate, another night my daughter mentioned how much she had enjoyed the lasagna they had served the previous night so the server (although it was'nt on the menu that night) called one of the restaurants on board and had it brought to her. everyone, the bar staff-the front desk people...are just the best in the industry.
all this said-i do want to add that disney does not permit behaviour by kids that is dangerous or impedes on another passenger's enjoyment of the cruise. i witnessed a very angry parent speaking with a senior staff member one evening. apparantly there had been problems with his teenage son running around the decks, elevator racing and the like. i overheard the staff member tell the parent that they had spoken both with the parent and the child several times to no avail and that for the remainder of the cruise the child had to be with one of his parents at all times. when the parent got nasty with the staff person they were advised that the alternative was to taken off the ship at the next port. so-they are great with kids but there is the expectation that the parents will ensure their kids are supervised and will behave. i have never seen the "roaming packs of rowdy kids" that cruisers on other lines complain about.
if you decide to give it a try-be warned: your children will enjoy it, you and your husband will enjoy it, and you will become quickly addicted
