Sorry for the long post. I tend to be wordy...
Wow! I was so impressed with the responses and helpfulness here.
I'll add some details about my trip here and just say that since you've been so helpful already I'm open to any suggestions you may have. Our family's doing a crazy split stay. We've only stayed at values before, so I am so, so excited I can barely contain myself. We're coming in on August 16th and staying 3 nights at BWV. We'll be hanging around that area, Epcot, and HS during this part of our trip. We will have PH tickets, so plan on completely immersing ourselves here.
Then we're staying 2 nights at VWL. I've been worried that this won't be enough time, but I figured it's really 3 days. I really want to enjoy staying here as much as possible. We tend to overload at MK and hope to be able to come and go as needed. I've also always wanted to visit FW and have never made it. So the general plan is leave on Tues morning and head over to MK. I still haven't decided if we'll take the direct route and take the bus, or take our leisurely time through Epcot and monorails. I probably will decide the morning of depending on timing and energy level

. Sometime after 3 or 4 we'll check in at VWL, relax and enjoy the resort. Some things I'd like to do is tour the lodge, have dinner, swim, enjoy the beach, maybe see a movie, and watch the electrical water pageant. Wed will be a full MK day. We'll break and swim in the middle of the day.
Thurs after checkout we'll visit FW and maybe MK depending on if we've got some attractions we missed. We'll move on to DTD and DQ before checking into AKV Jambo for 3 nights. (I realize we'll be on the 5th floor here. We got a standard view and I think we'll spend a lot of time with the curtains drawn

) This part of our trip is loosely scheduled and will be more laid back than the previous 6 days. Obviously we'll visit AK. We'll also go to TL and maybe PH to other parks in the evenings depending on how we feel at the time.
I know this seems like a lot of moving around. But I've had this crazy idea for over 2 years and am really looking forward to compartmentalizing our trip like this and experience these resorts. My kids are older, so this trip will really be the last one where my kids are kids, if you know what I mean. (We survived a trip last summer, though, to NY state to visit family. We moved 3 times in the same 8 nights with 3-5 hours of car travel in between, so I think we'll be fine..)
Thanks for taking the time to read and any thoughts you may have that will help in my planning.. So excited...