simpilotswife
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What many people in my husband's family do is plant a tree in Israel as a memorial. The sisterhood handles it for the temple that in my ILs attend.
When you purchase a tree, a certificate is sent indicating that a tree was purchased in memory of the person you name.smellyann said:I will definitely do the tree. Is that an ASAP thing or can it be done later when I come down there? Will they be notified that it was done for them somehow nice?
From The Jewish Book of WhyBethR said:I haven't read every response, so I could have missed it, but could someone explain why you don't send flowers to the family of a deceased Jewish person?
(Please don't misunderstand me. I am not being confrontational. I'm being curious. I love learning about the traditions of various faiths.)
punkin said:I'm sure Disneysteve's answer is correct, but my grandmother always said that flowers are for weddings and other happy occasions. Stones are for funerals.
disneysteve said:From The Jewish Book of Why
To encourage a distinction between the Jewish practice and the non-Jewish practice, flowers are not encouraged at funerals, but they are not forbidden by Jewish law.
JoiseyMom said:Another aspect of a Jewish funeral, is that we "bury" our own. Some families will fill the entire grave, others will take a shovel of dirt and cover the coffin.