it's summer year round here in sw florida!! that probably makes it even worse as so many people are practically naked everywhere!!! lol
i'm covered from ankle to up above my hip on one side (right), and not quite as bad, but still bad, on the other leg. tons of spider veins. and the backs of both knees are just big black blotches that look like bruises.
now i think i'm even getting a varicose vein in my ARM.and i also get "mystery" aches in my side too. all these are on my right side. could it be coincidence?
i went to 2 diff. vascular surgeons, had test done at both (cost me about $200 after ins.), only to be told that insurance wouldn't cover it. i had blue cross/blue shield at the time, but the office insisted that it wouldn't make a diff who i had as it would be cosidered cosmetic. i had my doubts, so i went to a diff practice for a second opinion and was told the same thing. even with constant swelling, pain, and even the bleeding issues. i figured after a couple expensive e.r. visits they would WANT to pay to have it taken care of, but nope!! i was in public one time that it happened and the business called an ambulance. they tried to stop the beeding, couldn't, so they wrapped it up good and i drove myself to the e.r. for stitches. that had to cost quite a bit too.![]()
I just have to say this: who are you covering up for? I have some spider veins, I'm 48...I don't think from your description mine are as bad, and admittedly I live in Ohio. I've had them for years and they are worse now, of course. But I'm still going to the pool in the summer and I'm still wearing shorts. We will be in Disney in 2 months and I'll be comfortable. If people don't like it, they don't have to look. Why do you make yourself miserable in case other people want to be judgemental? Live how you want to live!
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It's been my experience that negative reactions are pretty much the norm not the "in case". Kids have pointed and made faces, you see women looking, remarking. Men look away , even physicians I have seen have commented on how "it is no way to live looking like that". Maybe if physical imperfections are ever displayed in images of models, successful people, sports figures...things might change. Maybe if Oprah had over done show about them, maybe if there weren't commercials on tv every hour about how unsightly and embarrassing they are...maybe if comments weren't made like, "Why don't you get those fixed?...Don't you CARE how you look?" situations like that are my norm and why I cope by hiding them. I also do not wany my kids or DH to be embarassed by being with the lady with the ugly legs, around me it is pretty much expected to get them fixed, and those who don't are perceived as lazy or uncaring about their looks. I have tried make up, tanning sprays you name it to try and tone them down, but it doesn't really help and I worry about ruining clothes or if it's really hot, sweating. I do think I should be more "no worries " about it tho...there are much bigger problems in the world.
^^ EXACTLY......
and unfortunately i don't even have blue cross/blue shield anymore. now it's just horrible medicaid
If my goal of ever living in FL comes true, I will move near you and we can go out to the beach, WDW...anywhere we want in shorts because we will have each other!