Vanessa- figmentfan814 ~ Happily Ever Wedding & 10th Anniversary VR Brunch #1 Added 8-10

Aww Vanessa I am so sorry to hear about your losses! :sad1:

My thoughts and prayers are with you and a big :hug: for you!

I will be praying for the young people who lost their mother and all the rest of your family too!! :grouphug:

Vanessa, you are in my thoughts and prayers. I'm sorry for your losses. I can't imagine how hard that must be to have to go through...

I hope everything works out... I'm sure it will :hug:

Vanessa - sorry for your losses. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Just wanted to let you know your family is in my thoughts and prayers. This must be an incredibly difficult time for you and your family.

I am so sorry to hear your sad news. That is such a tragedy...

Please know that we are sending thoughts and prayers your way, and your Aunt and cousins.

I'm soooo sorry for your loss Vanessa!!!
Thank you ladies, your kind words mean so much. Things are starting to settle down back to normal again. I haven't heard how my cousin's two children have been the last couple of days. They had been living with their dad, but it's still been incredibly difficult for them, please continue to keep them in your thoughts.

Oh my gosh :(. My dad and my nephew --husbands side---died on the same day. One death is so hard but 2 on same day :(.

You have given me so much joy in reading your PJ then WR and I have no way to comfort you now that you need a bit of TLC.

I wish you will find comfort in knowing there are a lot of people here that are thinking of you and your family. You could see the love you have for family and they for you.

God Bless and hold you tight.
It is so hard especially when it's so unexpected, I'm sure you felt the same way. Everyone one here has been such a great support system, thank you again for everything :hug:

We have a family reunion tomorrow on my mom's other side, so I think it will be nice to be surrounded by family.

Thanks again everyone and don't worry, I'm still here and intend to get back to my report soon.
 
Oh my gosh Vanessa I am so sorry. I just got back from another business trip and I find that I haven't been here to support my very best dis-friend. :sad1: You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. What a tradgedy to lose two pieces of your heart at once. I pray that time will heal all wounds and that you take comfort in the good memories you have of your loved ones. I'm so sorry...wish I was there to give ya a good squeeze . :hug: I hope to hear that you and your family are getting along well soon. Take your time and heal...we are all here to lean on if you need us :flower3:

Anna Marie
 
Oh Vanessa, I am so sorry for your loss. :hug: I agree that it is very important for you to be with your family at this time...we can wait.

I also wanted to say your GF shots are stunning! I can't get over the ones of you and your husband on the beach with the parasol and when you are turned toward the camera with the breeze lifting your train a little. I agree that the sky does look fake, it's so perfect!! You looked so gorgeous!
 

Oh my gosh Vanessa I am so sorry. I just got back from another business trip and I find that I haven't been here to support my very best dis-friend. :sad1: You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. What a tradgedy to lose two pieces of your heart at once. I pray that time will heal all wounds and that you take comfort in the good memories you have of your loved ones. I'm so sorry...wish I was there to give ya a good squeeze . :hug: I hope to hear that you and your family are getting along well soon. Take your time and heal...we are all here to lean on if you need us :flower3:

Anna Marie
Thank you, Anna Marie, that means a lot to me. I'm so glad that we were able to meet at Disney; it helps to have that personal connection with someone that you talk to online. Everyone has been such a great support system on here through all of lifes ups and downs :)

Don't worry about your report, look after yourselves and your family :grouphug:

Oh Vanessa, I am so sorry for your loss. :hug: I agree that it is very important for you to be with your family at this time...we can wait.

I also wanted to say your GF shots are stunning! I can't get over the ones of you and your husband on the beach with the parasol and when you are turned toward the camera with the breeze lifting your train a little. I agree that the sky does look fake, it's so perfect!! You looked so gorgeous!
Thank you Meryll & Lizby; regular life is starting to set back in which I think is good for everyone. Having a routine helps you pull things back together. Although I have a friend who called last night who will be facing the 3rd anniversary of her sister's death and it was hard to talk about because her sister faced some of the same struggles that my cousin had before she passed away.

Lizby~ We were really fortunate that day; the weather was amazing and the mid-afternoon sky was perfect. Of course, having Randy as our photographer helped a lot too ;)

I did go to write a short installment this afternoon and realized my photos from the bus incident are on my phone. We were left waiting and no one had their cameras on them. I will have to get my chip to transfer those photos into Photobucket on my computer. It was kind of funny to see me walking around in my wedding dress taking photos with my cellphone in front of the Grand Floridian :)

Some other random updates- we hung up my arrangement from Keepsake with my bouquet in our entryway this week. They did an amazing job. I only have this sneak peek photo of when I was opening it; the ones of the arrangement are still on my camera.
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Vanessa, sweetie, I am just getting caught up on your journal. I am so sorry for your family's loss. I cannot imagine the devastation and sadness of those two funerals. My parents died 16 days apart and that whole time in my life seems to have passed in a fog. I hope your family's happy memories will soon eclipse the sadness of this time. I am really glad you have your TR to work on -- such a happy task! The sneak peak of your preserved bouquet looks incredible! Can't wait to see full pix!
 
Vanessa,
I'm loving the sneak peak at the preserved flowers. That is one of my big regrets from my wedding. My flowers were so beautiful and I didn't have anything done with them. I am thinking about emailing Rose to ask if she could recreate my bouquet for me and send it off to be preserved? What do you think?

Anna Marie
 
Wow! Your preservation looks like it is gorgeous! I may have to have mine done too!
 
I'm so sorry about your loss Vanessa!! Such tragedy.

the preservation looks lovely! Can't wait to see it all!!
 
Your preserved flowers look great!!! I want to see them better :goodvibes

I did not have my flowers preserved because of all the peach and coral in it. The Keepsake Floral site said these colors are the least successful to preserve :sad2:

Anyway, I decided to call Laura Kidd and ask her to recreate my bouquet in silk. She did a fantastic job! It doesn't match but definitely is as pretty as can be :lovestruc The gerbera daisies are hard to replicate in silk but I truly love my silk replica. I will be showing it later in my TR :love: :bride:
 
Vanessa, sweetie, I am just getting caught up on your journal. I am so sorry for your family's loss. I cannot imagine the devastation and sadness of those two funerals. My parents died 16 days apart and that whole time in my life seems to have passed in a fog. I hope your family's happy memories will soon eclipse the sadness of this time. I am really glad you have your TR to work on -- such a happy task! The sneak peak of your preserved bouquet looks incredible! Can't wait to see full pix!
Thank you so much for your sweet words of encouragement. I agree the TR is a nice distraction from everything. I just realized the pictures of my preserved bouquet are on my mom's camera (I had to open up the frame to fix something so I was able to get some great shots) so I'll have to wait until I am over there this week to get them :goodvibes

Vanessa,
I'm loving the sneak peak at the preserved flowers. That is one of my big regrets from my wedding. My flowers were so beautiful and I didn't have anything done with them. I am thinking about emailing Rose to ask if she could recreate my bouquet for me and send it off to be preserved? What do you think?

Anna Marie
I have read that this is totally possible; I know Lynn mentioned that she had heard of someone else doing this before. I would definitely do it; it is totally worth it! You should definitely do it on your next trip :thumbsup2

Wow! Your preservation looks like it is gorgeous! I may have to have mine done too!
Even though I spent a lot more than I originally planned on :rotfl: it was one of the best expenses from the wedding!

I'm so sorry about your loss Vanessa!! Such tragedy.

the preservation looks lovely! Can't wait to see it all!!
Thank you so much!

Your preserved flowers look great!!! I want to see them better :goodvibes

I did not have my flowers preserved because of all the peach and coral in it. The Keepsake Floral site said these colors are the least successful to preserve :sad2:

Anyway, I decided to call Laura Kidd and ask her to recreate my bouquet in silk. She did a fantastic job! It doesn't match but definitely is as pretty as can be :lovestruc The gerbera daisies are hard to replicate in silk but I truly love my silk replica. I will be showing it later in my TR :love: :bride:
That's interesting about the peach flowers; I know for our stephanotis flowers they painted them to help them retain the white. That is so great that you were able to get a silk reproduction. Did you already post pictures and did I miss them?
 
Wow Vanessa! Your flowers are gorgeous!!!! I am so glad I decided to do Keepsake Floral too! Your flowers look just as good preserved as they did fresh!
 
Your keepsake looks awesome!

It's good to hear everybody is starting to heal, if only a little.
 
That's interesting about the peach flowers; I know for our stephanotis flowers they painted them to help them retain the white. That is so great that you were able to get a silk reproduction. Did you already post pictures and did I miss them?

I haven't posted pictures yet because we had pics taken with Randy on our second honeymoon :goodvibes I haven't seen any of them yet =) It will come later in my TR :thumbsup2
 
Wow Vanessa! Your flowers are gorgeous!!!! I am so glad I decided to do Keepsake Floral too! Your flowers look just as good preserved as they did fresh!
I was really happy with the quality of the color and the overall preservation; it was definitely worth the wait! They arrived in mid-June, so it was about 3 months from start to finish.

Your keepsake looks awesome!

It's good to hear everybody is starting to heal, if only a little.
Thank you so much!

I haven't posted pictures yet because we had pics taken with Randy on our second honeymoon :goodvibes I haven't seen any of them yet =) It will come later in my TR :thumbsup2
Oh good, I was afraid that I had missed them :goodvibes
 
One quick side note, something that we realized while we were riding over to the Grand Floridian was that we hadn’t signed the marriage license yet! We called my mom and luckily they were all just unloading from the bus. A couple of the guests yelled to catch the attention of our pastor and he went into my parent’s room to sign it. Kris and I have an adventure later that night getting it signed by our witnesses, so stay tuned for that update.

Okay, back to the regular trip report~

After walking around the side of the Grand Floridian with Randy and arrived where our wedding party was waiting we noticed something was missing…. the bus wasn’t back yet. We waited around for a few minutes and Randy took the ring shots and I had him take a few of these pictures of our flowergirl.

Here I am fixing her butterflies on her shoes:

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Finally, after about 10 minutes we started wondering where the bus had gone. My MOH volunteered to go talk to someone at the bellhop, so I said that was fine even though I knew I could handle things on my own. Randy said his good-byes around this time since it seemed like we had things under control and said that he would see us later that night. Her eis my maid of honor as she headed off.

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I decided to call Marion too because I felt ridiculous sitting around waiting in front of the Grand Floridian, plus we still had to move all of our stuff from POR to the Grand Floridian, so Kris and I could check in for the night before the dessert party. I got Marion on her cellphone right away and she said that she would call to check on the bus. My maid of honor came back out around this time and said that they had no idea about the bus, but she said that she would go check with the guest services desk to see what they could do.

Here are some shots of us waiting around; my camera was on the bus so I took the shots with my camera phone.

Around this time, Marion called back and said that the bus driver had gone down to the Polynesian since we had mentioned that we might end up on their beach depending on if we ran into another wedding party (ignoring that we had agreed to still meet at the Grand Floridian when we were done.) I asked if we needed to walk down there and she said no that the bus would arrive shortly. I sent one of the groomsmen to get my maid of honor and she came back out telling me that she was trying to take care of the situation; I explained to her that the wedding coordinator had things under control and the bus was on its way.

Here we are hanging out waiting for the ride:
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Needless to say a few minutes later the bus pulled up in front of the hotel. The driver wasn’t too happy, but I figured it didn’t matter since he only half listened to us in the first place. The entire ordeal lasted almost 45 minutes which seemed like an eternity! We finally arrived at POR a little after 3 p.m. Most everyone was going to take a nap and several of us had to get our bags that had been moved that morning when we had to check out of our rooms. We were dropped off at the front entrance and we started heading back to the room not before I took several pictures of the bus for the scrapbook and this report!
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Around this time, my matron of honor’s husband pulled up around front in the convertible he had picked up the day before. He offered to give me a ride over to the room, so I wouldn’t have to drag my dress along. As he was driving me over he joked how people might think that we had gotten married that day.
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We piled into my one bridesmaid’s room since most of our things (me and two of the other girls) had been piled in her room since we had to check out that morning and our room was right next store to hers. Kris headed off with his best man to retrieve his bags or so I thought at this point. After about 15 minutes I was getting a little perturbed, after only a few hours of being married I had already been ditched. My bridesmaid and her husband were already changed because they were heading to Epcot for the afternoon. She was taking her dress in a bag that she was going to put in a locker and then she would change back into it right before the dessert party. I tried to call Kris on his phone, but no answer. We were all joking about it, but it was still a little upsetting.

It turned out that he was actually picking up my gift that he had accidentally forgotten back in Ohio . One of his friends that he was staying with had gone through his stuff for him and packed it up and UPSed it over night on Saturday, so he would have it for the wedding. It arrived the same day as the wedding, so it was perfect timing. This will come up again at the dessert party when he gives me the gift. After about 20 minutes he finally made an appearance and we headed off to my parent’s room to grab the rest of our things. We loaded up the rental car and were off to the Grand Flordian!
 
I'd have been very angry sitting there for 45 minutes in a huge hot wedding dress waiting for the bus driver!

Ooooohhhh a suprise wedding gift! Can't wait to find out what it is!
 
I'd have been very angry sitting there for 45 minutes in a huge hot wedding dress waiting for the bus driver!

Ooooohhhh a suprise wedding gift! Can't wait to find out what it is!

It was definitely not the best part of our day and the worst part was that everyone was so tired at this point; we were all starting to get cranky :rotfl:
 
I can't wait to see another pic of the keepsake floral!!! That was nice of your MOH hubby to give you a ride. Very thoughtful!
 














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