Treat Bags at Birthday Party

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We are planning my DD's 2nd birthday party. It is a family party with only a couple of my friends and their children invited. I always have a problem with the treat bags because they are normally full of junk, they can get very expensive, and it seems they are now expected by some people. One issue I have is all of the children coming, except one, are male and much older. There will be one girl age 2, and then all boys - a 5 yr. old, 2 - 7 yr. olds, a 10 yr old. and 2- 12 yr. olds. At what point do you cut them off because they are too old?

We are trying to save some money because we wanted to rent an Elmo costume ($40). Would it be tacky to not do the bags and just do the costume? If so, any suggestions for something that I could get them that does not seem like it is for the younger set?

Thanks,
 
I say skip the treat bags. If you want to do something Oriental Trading has a box of wooden peg games for like $12. It has all sorts of wooden games that you play with pegs and/or dice. They are small but they are tons of fun. It was what I asked for for Christmas......:rolleyes1 (I love playing with them!)
 
we gave out calendars. They were purchased at 75% off after the new year. :cool1:
 

I like both of those ideas.

I thought of a couple of things, too. What about an Elmo Pez dispenser? If I could even find those at Wal-mart or somewhere like that. I have not looked at those things in years, but I always loved them as a child.

Or, I found a website where the lady makes chocolate painted lollipops shaped like Elmo. They are only $1.25 each, which is not bad, but they will not tell you the shipping amount until after you order. I sent them an e-mail asking for at least an estimate of what the normal range is as I think that is a little unfair. We will see if it is doable.

Thanks,
 
What about paddle balls? All kids of every age seem to like them.
 
I skip the treat bags.Last year I bought coloring books at the dollar store and crayons (they had cute Elmo coloring books)
 
they wouldn't be the same, but making your own chocolate lollipops with a mold is super easy, and cheap, if you could find a cute mold. We made Eiffel Towers for a party once and they were very cute.
 
I did the treat bags for our family Christmas party, kids ranged in age from 3-12. I did the small stuffed plush from the Disney Store. I found them on sale for $2 each. I couldn't beat that price, even if I filled them with junk from the $1 store...

I don't think a goody bag is a necessity, but it is appreciated, especially since the older kids will probably be bored at a party aimed at a 2 yr. old. I'd find something very inexpensive --even a ball or silly putty, just something they will enjoy.

The Elmo costume is clearly for the birthday child, not the other guests. While I would certainly do it, I'd send something home (or have an older-child activity) available for the rest of the kids. Actually, that could be your "goody", something they can do at the party, then take home with them. Even match box cars (anything with wheels) should go over well with boys of all ages.
 
More good ideas.

We actually have her parties at our church gym so that the older boys can play basketball. Last year at her 1st party, we could not even get them to sit down for her to do her cake or open presents. They only stopped playing to eat a piece of cake themselves. So, in reality, I don't feel they get bored.

I do agree the costume is for her, but I was also thinking of her two cousins who are 2 and 5. It is the older ones that I have the issues with and am really not sure they should even be included with any bags. However, if I give the 2 and 5 year old something, I always feel bad about leaving them out.

Thanks!
 
More good ideas.

We actually have her parties at our church gym so that the older boys can play basketball. Last year at her 1st party, we could not even get them to sit down for her to do her cake or open presents. They only stopped playing to eat a piece of cake themselves. So, in reality, I don't feel they get bored.

I do agree the costume is for her, but I was also thinking of her two cousins who are 2 and 5. It is the older ones that I have the issues with and am really not sure they should even be included with any bags. However, if I give the 2 and 5 year old something, I always feel bad about leaving them out.

Thanks!

Well, if they're not going to have the courtesy to join the guest of honor for the events of the day, then I think you are doing more than enough by having an activity (basketball) for them to enjoy. I think a very little something would be more than enough!
 
they wouldn't be the same, but making your own chocolate lollipops with a mold is super easy, and cheap, if you could find a cute mold. We made Eiffel Towers for a party once and they were very cute.

This is what I do too. I love making chocolate lollipops and the kids love getting them. They seriously don't need any more little puzzles, balls or plasticy things to lay around the house until I sneak them into the trash. The lollipops have always been a hit with the kids.
 
We do treat bags for the younger kids that include a juice box, fruit snacks, a pack of pretzels or goldfish, etc. It doesn't cost alot and the kids (and parents) always are happy with them.
 
I know to us adults treat bags are lame but the kids REALLY I mean REALLY look forward to them. I like the idea that if you are on a budget and want a practical treat bag you can get a set of bags and put a capri sun drink pouch and a granola bar and a few pieces of candy in it. That works well for all ages, really! I wouldn't skip the treat bag. Good luck!
 
We just celebrated DS's 2nd b-day in November and we had about 11 kids ranging from ages 2-8. We filled the younger childrens' bags with goldfish, a treat (like a lollipop or gummy fruit snacks), crayons, stickers and a book or coloring book. The older kids got food treats too as well as a book or something age appropriate like a puzzle or trivia cards (such as camp rock or something like that). The kids really look forward to the gift bags and we didn't want to send them home with any 'junk' like the little things that end up in the trash. :goodvibes
 
Personally, skip the goodie bags. Its a waste of money and time I think. I can't tell you how many goodie bags end up in the trash because DD never wanted anything that was in them. I felt bad for the family who gave them to us, but really, you can only have so many plastic toys sitting around.
 
Hi,

Most of your older guest are going to expect a goody bag. In fact I didn't do one one year and got quite a few comments about it from the older kids. Most kids don't care what's in the bag just so long as they get one. After that I developed a what I call my ultimate super cheap goody bag:

Step 1: Buy a bag or two of wrapped no name Holiday candy on clearance for about $1/bag at the least popular drug store in town - that's where there candy will be plentiful but cheap because they want to get rid of it. Most packages will have about 21 pieces in them enough to give each kid more than 1 piece. I stocked up on Halloween Candy in November for our April birthday - enough candy to fill a pinata for $3.00. I got gum, pops, spongebob gummies, and tootsie roll mix. It doesn't go bad for at least a year if kept at moderate temps and most kids don't care what the labels are on the candy. Since Christmas was last week you should be able to get some good deals on leftover Christmas candy.

Step 2: Hit Target the Dollar Store or Walmart:

Buy the multipack cheapo Baseball or Football Cards @ $3 for 21 cards Break up among the boys. They might also have a larger set of opened cards really old ones with more cards in it for about the same price maybe a little more at the dollar store you might find one for less.

Pick up a package of themed pencils. Cost of package @$1. If you are feeling extravagant go to the party store and pick up pencils that match your theme for about 25c each. Give each child one pencil.

Also buy a pack of green army men for @$1 (walmart has them for 88 cents). Break up bag evenly among the boys.

One package of plastic animals or rubber snakes for @$1 - split evenly among the bags.

Total cost of all bags @$8 but it looks like you spent MUCH more.

Other items that can be substituted that look expensive, kids love and are actually really cheap: Punch Balloons: Get at Target 4/$1 in bins in the Toy section. Super Bounce Balls from the gumball machines for a quarter each. Themed Erasers for about 5 to 15 cents each. Other items that I pick up as leftovers after a holiday and save for the next party. Cheapy plastic jewelry, multipacks of play-doh, hotwheels, temporary tattoos. And in the spring and summer Wal-mart sells multi-packs of squirt guns they usually have four guns for about 88 cents (Sometimes they have them in the winter but not always).

And to help cut costs but to make the loot bags look fun: Buy a package of red lunch bags - available at Target for about $1.50. Decorate with round white paper cut outs with black crayon Pupils to look like Elmo's Eyes. Put so you can fold over the top a couple of times. You can also cut out some larger round circles and color orange (Crayons are a wonderful thing). Glue below the eyes for his nose.

Further with the Elmo theme - if you can cook at all - how to have the ultimate Sesame Street Cake but not spend much money. Buy a cake mix and make one 8 or 9 inch round cake following directions on box. Make the rest of the mix into cupcakes. Buy red frosting or white frosting and add blue food coloring to make dark blue frosting. (You can make your own red frosting but it will take a ton of red food dye.) Frost the cake roughly with lots of points on the frosting. Take two oreos. Remove the tops. Place opened cookies on edge of cake but on the top. Take two brown M&Ms in the center of each Oreo. Place one "Orange Slices" gum drop in the center between the eyes hanging over the edge of the cake using a toothpick to hold in place. Voila Elmo. If Blue frosting was used omit orange slice. Stick one Oreo into the frosting at the bottom of the Cake - Yeah! it's Cookie Monster. I usually just buy the snack pack of Oreos but you could buy the big bag and put leftover Oreos in baggies then in your loot bags instead of candy. Remove papers from cupcakes, flip over and place on a platter or cutting board. Frost the cupcakes roughly in red or blue frosting and place 2 brown M&M's on each for eyes - mini monsters!
 
Goody bags are nice - I recommend filling with consumables instead of filling with junk that no parent wants. I like the matchbox car or silly putty idea with some granola bar, candy or something. My girls have a lot of fun helping put things into the goody bags to get ready for the party. I definitely think if you are doing goody bags, then it needs to be for all the kids.
If you don't want to deal with goody bags, then just don't do them. I didn't do them until the kids started inviting a bunch of kids for the party. When they were 1,2,3 it was family only, and we didn't bother with goody bags.
 
I hate gift bag but do give the kids something one year it was a potted flower, last year it was a beach towel (pool party), and this year they are getting shirts that they can sign the back of (Sleepover). I have never had a child complain and the parents are usually thrilled.

-Becca-
 


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