Holy crap, youre stressing out! Lol!!!!
Most people are lucky; they have jobs or money situations or kids that cause them to only have one option for their departure date. Youve got too many options.
I say, go out and get a part time job for the day you plan to leave. Make sure you can only get off at 8pm. Then you have no choice but to leave late and all the other possibilities are gone.
Problem solved.
Seriously, I think youve been over this so many times now that its become more of an issue than it really is. As I said earlier, to me it seems like it boils down to money for you guys. If you can afford an extra night I say just head down to DW during the day at your leisure. Get there at 8, 9, 10, 11pm
whatever. Check out some things around your area (hotel, DTD, etc) or maybe stop at a nice restaurant on the way in (café tu tu tango is an awesome, odd place) and have a nice, relaxed dinner.. or maybe swing by and grab some groceries once you arrive in town to have snacks with you throughout the days. Then go to bed. Wake up when you decide to wake up (being because you want to sleep in or you want to get to a park early for RD). Do whatever you want.
As you can see, theres so many of us who are different that we all suggest something different (hey, look at my hypocrisy in this post, alone

). Just from a point of not being wore out I think it might behoove you to take your time and drive up during the day. But then again, theres a lot less traffic out at 2am than there is at 2pm. Either way, youll be fine.
We all have to go through experiences to learn from them. As you can tell, weve been through them before and have all taken away something different. Do what works best for your schedule and
budget. Enjoy your trip!
- Erin
PS: Shame on you for making me want to go to disney now!
