I can only speak for OKW. We vacation there often and we just returned on Thurs from our most recent trip.
The longest wait for a bus was 17 min (yep...we timed it) and that was to MGM on EMH. Our waits during the week averaged 10-15 min to the various parks.
Can you exist without a car ? Yes...we did once at the resort. It was fine. I will admit having a car is easier because you can park right outside your door and if you like to resort hop for dining or shopping this makes it very convenient. Some people like to drive to the main pool if they are not particularily close to it. We were in bldg 34 this week and it was about an 8-10 min walk. There was a closer "quiet" pool that was about a 3-4 min walk. My kids really enjoy the sandcastle slide though, so we spent most of our time at the main pool. On two occasions we visited the quiet pool because the main pool was a bit crowded. But if you don't have a car and wish to be close to the main hub of the resort, request "close to Hospitality House" on your reservation.
We did tour SSR this trip. Personally, we prefer OKW because of the larger room and larger balcony. But SSR was very nice. The interior is more formal/elegant at SSR while the OKW rooms are more beachy/casual. We just prefer the more casual, but the decor inside the SSR villas is very nice. I wasn't too impressed with SSR walking down the hallway towards the door. But once you enter the room, it's like the exterior hallway just doesn't belong there. It goes from kind of bland as far as the exterior hallways are concerned to quite elegant once you're inside. Even though we prefer OKW, we would not have a problem staying at SSR. We toured a studio, 1 bedroom, 2 bedroom and a GV there.
Both resorts have a sit down restaurant. OKW has Olivia's which we always enjoy and SSR has a new one called the Turf Club. SSR also has a sort of casual food court that is connected to the gift shop called Artist Palette. It sort of reminded me of the new Marketplace food court at the Beach Club that is also connected to the gift shop there. They have really good salads and key lime pie here ! We found it highly curious that OKW didn't have key lime pie but SSR did ?! Olivia's does serve a key lime tart as an honorable mention, but we prefer the actual slice of pie.
OKW has a bar (Gurgling Suitcase), as well as a snack stand by the main pool called Goods To Go. They are very close to the pool.
SSR has a pool bar that serves drinks only. I don't believe there is a snack bar there though....I think you have to go into Artist Palette to get food. The pool is not too far from Artist Palette but going in with a wet suit doesn't seem too convenient to me ? Hoping maybe SSR will reconsider this. Maybe an SSR owner will be able to give you more detailed info on this. But all we saw by the main pool was the pool bar.
Overall, both these resorts are great...they each offer a little something different.
Here you can check out menus at the various restaurants/eateries I mentioned :
http://www.allearsnet.com/menu/menus.htm#res
Hope this helped a little
