I've been to both and while I love eating in the lodge, Trails end offers the same items as well as many other yummy things. Like the other poster said, you can control what you get....and it did seem more "relaxed" and vacation like.
It's still a rustic atmosphere and I love resort hopping to try out all the restaurants. I like checking out the general store and if you time it right or make a reservation for it, you can also catch a horse/carriage ride right outside of Trails End.