The VIP viewing is near the flag pole, not the patio for Tony's. So the package will not have an effect on this request.
You can always ask. If they have space for you, they will usually try to accommodate. But, LOTS of people will be making that same request, so there is no way to even guess how likely they will accommodate you.
If the table they assign you is not on the patio, you can either accept it, or decline... and then pay the no show fee.
However, if you are eating at Tony's, and seeing the parade with no crowd fuss is a priority, I would just get the package. Trying to get patio seating for dinner may work, or it may result in you missing the parade completely.
The package includes appetizer and dessert. Depending on what you order, you can come out "ahead" with the package vs. paying the menu prices.