They Call Me MISTER PIG- He Said, She Said (9/1 Lights, Thunder, Fantasmic? Page 47)

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[VanniGirl]

Hope you are doing ok!

 

[dreamer17555]

So Matt and I have been talking and hanging out and have decided to give our relationship another shot. There will probably be therapy for both of us and he is still set to see a psychiatrist later this month.

I am hopeful but still cautious.

Cat will still see her therapist but honestly going back to dance has been the best medicine for her. She just glows. Today is her third straight day and she is looking forward to learning new routines for lyrical and jazz. Its nice to see her happy. I am sure all of you understand how worried I was about her.

My friend is doing better but is not out of the woods yet. He has had some major complications regarding his kidneys. Prayers are appreciated.

I am not sure what will happen with this TR. I have the next part finished but I am going to see if He wants to put in his comments. If not it will be a She Said.

Mostly I wanted to Thank You all from the bottom of my heart for all the love and support I have found on this board. You are amazing people and renew my faith in humanity. I haven’t had a chance to dig through all the PMs but every message was read and touched my heart. All the advice and stries shared made me hopeful and not so alone.

I am not sure where this path will lead. I hope that this was just one of those rough times that will eventually mean very little. I love him, He loves me and even though its hard I believe if we both are willing to try then we will make it.

Thank You All.

-Becca-

 

[AmandaSparks730]

Oh, you're welcome, Becca

Glad to hear that everyone feels better

Dance always helps me in bad times, so I know how Cat feels.

 

[brookelizabeth]

Becca!
I am so, so, so happy to hear your WONDERFUL news! I am rejoicing with you! I will continue to pray for you, He, and your children in this situation. I can understand your hopeful/yet cautious attitude-I would feel the exact same way (matter of a fact, I sorta do already, for you! ) Like you said, hopefully this is just a rough patch that you will get past. And those sort of things usually make people stronger, so I pray it has that same affect on your marriage-that it becomes stronger and sweeter than it ever has been!

And that is wonderful to hear about Cat doing so well. I remember when my parents did divorce, I was older than Cat, but getting back to my routine, something I loved and enjoyed and could control and understand, was very helpful to me. I was able to sort out my feelings a lot more once I had something under control - which was my daily school routine.

I look forward to your next update, hoping for "He Saids", but will enjoy it even without them!

Continued prayers for your friend as well.

 

[TinkAsh2001]

I wish you 2 all the best!!! So glad Cat is doing better!!!! Big Hugs & so glad to see you happy again!

 

[reelmom]

Oh Becca~
That is such wonderful news! I think that it is a good decision to keep going to therapy. I will continue to pray for you and the family.

 

[CRdisMom]

Hugs to both of you. I wish you strength while you go through this next step. Therapy is a power tool. There will be hard times but once you make it through them it will be better.

My prayers are with you and your friend.

 

[Camster0307]

Becca - So happy to hear the news. I wish you and your family all the best; glad to hear you're all back on the right path!

 

[AZMickeyfans]

Becca!

This is GREAT news!

Therapy sounds like a good idea for you guys also. Lets you get everything out in the open, move on and get over it. I'm really happy for you.

 

[stagemomx3]

Becca that is good news for you.

 

[brandi~momof3]

GL, I will keep you all in my prayers. I wish you the best, all of you.

 

[creativeamanda]

Just wanted to say

and also

I am truly happy for you. Sometimes things like this bring marriages closer. I pray that is the case for you.

 

[Charleston Princess]

Hurray, Becca! I am so happy to hear your great news!

 

[LuccaDrake]

Becca, glad to hear some promising news. I hope that you get the answers you need from all of this whether it turns out good or bad. Great to hear about Cat doing better being back in dance. I also hope your friend gets well soon. Can't wait for a TR update!

~Beka~

 

[Northern Disney Girl]

Becca - I am so glad for you! I truly hope that you guys can make your marriage last! Prayers, hope and blessings to both of you! Continue on being strong and true to your self!

 

[sunnyday123]

Becca,
So happy to hear this, and I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Sometimes you have to lose everything you have to realize how good it was and hopefully you all will get this straightened out. Just remember to take it slow, and I know this is hard but try not to get Cat's hopes up about you guys getting back together. I'd hate to see her come as far as she has and get knocked down again. This can be so hard on children, and sometimes you have to step back and see how everything affects them. My DD went through a really rough time with my divorce, no so much because of the divorce, but because of her fathers actions. And pm me if you just want to talk or have questions.

Good Luck!!!!

 

[kaysmommie]

Becca,
So happy to hear the good news. I hope HE has come to his senses and your family can put this behind them. Happy to hear Cat is doing better now that she is back at dance. I'm really hoping everything works out for you all . Prayers for your friend too.

 

[LITTLEKID58]

 

[Moonlitdreams82]

Becca:
So glad to hear the good news! I'm glad he came to his senses and realized what a beautiful thing he was ready to walk out on. I feel that therapy may be the best medicine (both for him, Cat and the two of you as a whole). I am still keeping your friend in my prayers and hope everything works out.

I am off to get married in a couple of hours so I will talk to you when I get back from the honeymoon and i will have a report to share with you as well

Love,
Amy