The What's For Dinner Thread - Feb '09(recipe index in OP)

I've been kind of MIA this week. It was a pretty rough, yet typical, week.

I wrote this out mainly as a vent, so if you don't read through it all, I won't be too hurt. It's pretty long. :upsidedow

This week is finally over! What a week.....

Monday: Started out okay, but by the afternoon, one of my kids (first grade) picked a fight with a 5th grader that had come into my room to take a student somewhere. My kid threw scissors at his face and the other kid choked him and they were both punching and kicking. Then after school I had a meeting that should have lasted about 15 minutes and it went an HOUR.

Tuesday: On my prep I was supposed to have two meetings with parents, but the first parent showed up like 30 minutes before her appointment time and then left, only to later send me a nasty note wondering "what happened to me, I waited 25 minutes and you never showed up". Uh, I was, I dunno, TEACHING?!? The second one, again should have only lasted about 15 minutes, but went on for the ENTIRE prep period - 45 minutes! The mother was so angry and wanted to pull her child out of my class - because I don't give spellingtests. wth?!? Whatever.

During After School, I finally got a tutor to replace the one that quit about a month ago. This is good. I also got a schedule (mind you - Tuesday was the 25th of February) that gives me lesson outlines - for the week of February 3rd.

Wednesday: This day started out innocently enough. I had to meet with MORE parents - this time on my LUNCH, but whatever. The afternoon was like something out of some crazy movie though. One of my kids went crazy (same one as Monday) because "he said my last name!" and he was lunging at kids trying to beat them up. He was arguing with me that he was going to kill himself and screaming in my face to "just close the door so I can go kill myself and these kids don't have to see" and then he said he was going to kill this one student. The other kid said something that, at the time, I went "huh" to myself, but then later I was laughing about it. The kid going nuts said "I'm going to kill Peter" [not real name] and Peter said "My name isn't Peter anymore. I changed it." Some of my kids were crying because this kid was saying such crazy stuff and totally out of control, even though I was holding him so he couldn't physically hurt anybody. Then the AP came up and took him out, then the dean came - way later - and asked "where's the problem?" "The problem already left." Then somebody from some behavior program we have came to speak to the child, who was right outside my door. The kids were all riled up from this kid's outburst, and some of them had asked if they could organize the library. So picture this: I've got 3 people dealing with this one kid right outside my door, a bunch of kids, some crying from fear and others wandering around from being agitated, some attempting to work, and some "cleaning the library". Well, their version of organizing meant they had dumped out like 10 baskets of books. I kid you not, there was like a 5 foot by 5 foot area of floor that was a foot deep in books. It's at this point when the AP and two other administrators come in to do a "learning environment checklist" - i.e., looking around the room to see how clean it is and if I have all the things on the walls that I'm supposed to. Good timing. At the time I was thinking OMG but in hindsight it's pretty funny.

Thursday: This day started out with the AP coming in and saying that the principal may be coming through in the afternoon and to make sure EVERYTHING is up to date, so to clean while the kids are working. Um, okay. So I start shoving stuff into the closet. The principal never did come through (thank God!) but my room is cleaner now, despite the closet being full! At dismissal, the explicit graffiti on the wall gets the class all riled up. At least I got to send them home at that point. Even the WALLS have the ability to disrupt class in this place.

Friday: This was kind of a strange day. I was supposed to have a prep 2nd period, and a meeting during it. But, I didn't get my prep because they pulled the teacher who was supposed to cover my class so she could do paperwork. I wonder when they will figure out that the data won't change if we don't ever INSTRUCT the children in between the "collection of data". So, the meeting gets moved - to LUNCH. So now, no prep AND no lunch. Great. I go to the meeting, where I find out that they've changed the benchmark for being "on grade level" from reading at level D in December to reading at level F in December. That's 2 levels higher than before - and they're telling us in what is essentially March now. Then, the AP tells me that they are changing the curriculum for skills block - to something that is EASIER than what I'm giving my kids now, and it would screw up the routine they are used to in skills block. I fight this one - and surprisingly, WIN!! They keep changing the curriculum, among other things, at random in multiple subject areas. Then, after school I have yet another parent meeting. I have to meet in a room where a bunch of kids are sitting around waiting for a bus because I needed a translator and the lady had to be in that room. While we're meeting, at least 3 fistfights break out in 10 minutes, so we had to kind of cut it short. The mother looked really alarmed by what was going on. :sad2:

Oh, and I find out that the parents of the girl who were so upset about the spelling test issue went to the principal demanding to have her class changed, so now she will be in a new class next week. Funny thing is that I have the highest-performing class on the grade, and they class she is going into is the lowest-performing class on the grade. That's what they wanted. :confused3

So yeah, that's a pretty typical week in my world. And it's really a shame because the vast majority of my class is good kids. A small handful of kids ruin it for the rest of them. I can't teach when I'm keeping kids from throwing scissors, chairs, books, etc, or threatening suicide.

And people tell me this is normal. I've worked at other schools in different states and this was NOT normal, everyday stuff.
 
Nice one Kris !!

Heres The Boy.....

All Karated up for school.

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Too cute to be scary...but he tries !!

Have a good day youse guys x

What a handsome you man!!!!!

Dinner tonight was salmon with mustard horseradish crust, steamed green beans & bell peppers & garlic bread.
 

I've been kind of MIA this week. It was a pretty rough, yet typical, week.

I wrote this out mainly as a vent, so if you don't read through it all, I won't be too hurt. It's pretty long. :upsidedow

This week is finally over! What a week.....

Bethany - I'm not quite sure what to say here, I'm speechless.:sad2:
 
I've been kind of MIA this week. It was a pretty rough, yet typical, week.

I wrote this out mainly as a vent, so if you don't read through it all, I won't be too hurt. It's pretty long. :upsidedow

This week is finally over! What a week.....

Oh, Bethany! :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:

I am so sorry to hear about your horrible week. I was a teacher for 5 years before having kids, and some of the stuff I saw has soured me on ever going back!

I had one student who showed up for class the first week of the term, and then never showed up again. When I called home to make sure he was ok, I was told by his mother that unless he had killed someone, to leave her alone until he did.

In my last year of teaching, I had a student come to my class early with blood dripping down both arms. He had slashed his arms to ribbons during breakfast to see if he parents would notice. They didn't. I spent the day with him in the ER, because his parents couldn't be bothered.

It's so sad!

So, for what it's worth, I'm with you in spirit! You are an important person in so many lives, and many times, you won't even know it!
 
Bethany I am exhausted just reading your post. :hug: I wish I had some words of wisdom for you.
 
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I read over the posts but I have to comment on Bethany.

No, my friend, that kind of week is not normal for a lot of schools. But I think for many inner city schools it is all too common. I honestly do not know how you do it, the chaos you try to control while trying to teach and mentor the children has got to be exhausting.

My niece was a behaviorist in Hartford and I don;t have to tell you what that was like, she got the children when the teacher absolutely had to remove the from the classroom. When she finally left I imagine that poor teachers were having the same weeks you had.

My head hurts just thinking about your job this week. :hug::hug:
 
Bethany--hugs to you! I can't even imagine teaching young kids these days, and not under those circumstances!:hug:

scotlass--yes, you need to bet something really big on the AI outcome. You could come out way ahead. Unfortunately, then your family might want to take you to Vegas :rotfl:

We had a really good time with our friends tonight. Grilled burgers and sides--and yes, he did grill out--however, even though it was 75 yesterday it's in the 50s and raining right now, with temps falling--weather girl said maybe SNOW tomorrow!!!! AAAHHH!!:eek: Now it's time for bed! Night ladies!
 
We had a great night celebrating Mariah's birthday. So glad we went back to this restaurant, we obviously ordered the wrong things our first time there, it was excellent tonight. Sheryl - you were so right the seared tuna salad was amazing(Alligator Pear)! For those of you who aren't on facebook, here's a pic of Kyle & Mariah:

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SORRY - for the size of my pics, I've yet to master the art of re-sizing on photobucket.:confused:
 
We had a great night celebrating Mariah's birthday. So glad we went back to this restaurant, we obviously ordered the wrong things our first time there, it was excellent tonight. Sheryl - you were so right the seared tuna salad was amazing(Alligator Pear)! For those of you who aren't on facebook, here's a pic of Kyle & Mariah:

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SORRY - for the size of my pics, I've yet to master the art of re-sizing on photobucket.:confused:

Beautiful picture Kat!!!!!
 
I hate when that happens. Have you tried tylenol PMs or anything? I love Ambien CR but that has to be prescribed.

I have some Melatonin but never remember to use it. Going to try to stick to a strict schedule next week, eat good, get some exercise, take a Melatonin and bed at 11, and see if that helps.

Can I just tell y'all that I have been having more and more cramping/tightening/contractions...anyone think I'll go early?

Wouldn't surprise me!:dance3:

I've been kind of MIA this week. It was a pretty rough, yet typical, week.

I wrote this out mainly as a vent, so if you don't read through it all, I won't be too hurt. It's pretty long. :upsidedow

This week is finally over! What a week.....

And people tell me this is normal. I've worked at other schools in different states and this was NOT normal, everyday stuff.

I have worked in childcare for over 20 years now and I have seen some really outrageous stuff, I know how you feel! :hug:

And normal depends on the school and how many children have severe emotional and mental problems. :sad2: Which I have come to realize in a lot, not all but a lot, of the cases is the fault of parents who either A. don't care what their kids do B. couldn't see the forest even if they ran into the tree, the whole "not my child" mentality and lastly the C. parents, those that can't tell little Susie no because they don't want Susie scarred for life or worse, angry at them!:sad2:
 
Today is mine and Scott's 5th wedding anniversary. We are going to TGI Friday's to indulge in a Jack Daniel's steak. One of my favorites. We may go to a movie afterward.
 
Good Morning!

Not awake yet...so bear with me. Thank you all for the c section info and stories. I think I am calmer about it now. The doctor did not call me back yet so I may just wait till Tuesday to talk to him.

I think we are going out tonight. That or take out.

Kathy, What nice pictures! They make a cute couple!!! I am glad you had a great time.

Happy Anniversary Lindsay and Scott!!! Enjoy your day!
 
Kat, what a nice looking couple, they look happy.

Lauren, thinking of you.

Tonight is my DB 50th birthday party. I am not going I am to sick. DH is going to go by himself. I am going to go to the walkin later this am, I am afraid I have bronchitis. The weekend started out terrible. We are also having trouble with our heat, and a DirectTV box went out.

Ann
 
Ann, I am so sorry that you are so sick. Please take care of yourself and let us know how you make out. Have some chicken soup with lots of black pepper. :hug: :hug: :hug:
 
Today is mine and Scott's 5th wedding anniversary. We are going to TGI Friday's to indulge in a Jack Daniel's steak. One of my favorites. We may go to a movie afterward.

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Kathy, What nice pictures! They make a cute couple!!! I am glad you had a great time.

Kat, what a nice looking couple, they look happy.

Tonight is my DB 50th birthday party. I am not going I am to sick. DH is going to go by himself. I am going to go to the walkin later this am, I am afraid I have bronchitis.

Beautiful picture Kat!!!!!

Thanks guys!

Ann - I'll be praying that you don't have bronchitis, take care my friend. Wish I lived closer, I feel helpless.:hug:

WFD - Bacon wrapped shrimp w/chipotle bbq sauce, Laura & Becky's Mom's spinach gratin and a pasta salad.
 
Morning all. DH let me sleep in this morning, and I'm not quite awake yet.

Ann--get some rest and feel better soon. :hug:

Kathy--that's a great picture! They look really happy

Lindsay--Happy Anniversary to you and Scott!:love:

Not sure WFD tonight. I think my sis and I are gonna take the kids to this new Chuck E Cheese-like place here. So, food won't be great, but we'll have fun. Okay, time to be productive. IL's are coming next week and the guest room hasn't been looked at in ages. Better start the clean up now:rolleyes:
 













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