I have to check what my family is up to this evening. I am helping my DS move his things into their home today and doubt that they will want to come by for dinner. DD mentioned running errands so they probably won't be home, and DH wants to cut tomorrow if we can line up enough help so I doubt he will be in early. WE'll see.
I have a little challenge coming up in two weeks and would appreciate any suggestions. My sister is not a good cook, when she has holidays I usually bring food and the rest is catered by Costco. No one complains because it is not burnt

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Anyway BIL's 50th bday is coming up and she would like to have a small dinner party for him, perhaps 20 people. She is just getting settled in her home. His brother has CP and uses one of those big power chairs, he has a roommate, also in a power chair. There will be no party without his brother, but the house is not accessible for the chairs yet. She does not think Mike can make that happen in two weeks. Her garage is brand new and painted so we can use it for the meal. Do you think we could have a decent party that would not be tacky if we used the garage, and what would you suggest. I was thinking a buffet bit with prime rib and roast pork, and floating appetizers before hand, but I'm not sure that would be the best idea. Is this too unwieldy for an indoor event that is placed sort of outdoors. I don't really want to grill becasue Mike generally does this, it's his birthday, and my grilling is not always successful. We won't even talk about my sisters....she blew the grill up and sent the cover sailing over the garage
There has to be a better way to have a nice party that will not separate Toby and his roommate from the rest of the group. Even the deck does not have a ramp

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They had a deposit on a house that they designed and it was all handicap accessible, so that my BIL brother could be totally independent when he visited but the builder is now bankrupt and they are out all of the money they placed on the house. This one was already constructed so they have not had time to make the necessary changes.