I just need to let it all out some where...
OK so at first it was just me, DH and DD7 going...then it was me, DH, DD7, adult DD, DGboy (8 months old)...then it was me, DH, DD7, adult DD, Dboy (8 months old), DMom (to help with Dboy), DGranny (upgraded to a 2 bedroom villa)...
Now it looks like it's just me, DD7 and possibly DMom. My DH just found out that he will have to work during that week, adult DD is expecting again and doesn't want to go pregnant, DGranny will want someone to stay home to tend to adult DD so she'll volunteer (I don't argue with elders)...
This also meant that I had to change resorts because a villa would be too much for just the two of us possibly the three of us and there is no one to cook for DH (health reasons) so I downgraded to POR Riverside Royal Guest room with a garden view (this will make DD7 very happy)...after looking at the resort map and seeing that there is only 1...yep...one bus stop I don't know how to feel. No rental car so we will be using public transportation for the first time and so that meant I had to change and or drop some ADRs.
I have never went on vacation without DH. I am very nervous about this on - 1200 miles away from home. I think that if my DMom goes along I'll feel better..working on her. Anyway, I'm still going and this means we get to fly for the first time. I'm going to try to stay positive.
The End.